I have a girl that I'm super close to. She's basically my best friend but we hook up and its not mutually exclusive. She has a bf every now and then but cheats on most of them with me or someone else. She goes to school in colorado while I live in Cali and has about 3 years left of school and I have 2. I hook up with other girls but theres a part of me that likes how good we are together. I dont think shes up for the LTR due to the distance but I would go as far as move to Colorado to make it happen. I want to make it happen. I've had my share of other girls and she's got me stumbling. Any advice to getting her and keeping her?

how old are you (college or grad school?)

How deep is your emotional connection, yeah ur freinds but emotionally how deep is it? Does she only see you as a fuck buddy or more? Do you have any insight into her feelings for you?

Pretty much how deeply do you feel her feelings for you are? Make sure your not overreading her signs.

I've never been in this situation and cna't think that i know anyone else who has been. I would say the best thing that I can think off and again just my opinion:

1.) Either tell her directly how you feel, I mean if your planning on moving to Colorado for her your gonna eventually have to tell her that you want to move this relationship another step.

2.) Or plan a trip out there to visit her and spedn some time with her see if you can do a week and get a feel for it. Do a date or two and see how that goes if u haven't already i'm not sure waht u guys have done. If it goes well she might be the one bringing up the idea "I wish u lived out here" or something like that.

But to be honest besides for the two options above I don't really see what else u can do with ur situation. The point is though u got 2 more years in cali so whats the point of doing this now wouldn't it be better to do this in 2 years upon graduation, or owuld u transfer colleges for her?

I do actually know 2 people who left colleges for their boyfreinds after frosh year at the time and both are broken up now (i'm 3 years out of college, not sure when in college they broke up but somewhere in there). If you do this u better be damn sure and that she feels the same way, becuase u would be leaving your area and friends and the new people u meet will be her freinds so ...

Anyways reply back with some more information I'd be more then happy to discuss this more, just trying to look out for ya.

here's the deal...you sound pathetic. you're falling for her and she's not that into you. get over the relationship idea and just enjoy fucking the shit out of her. she sounds like the type that will prob cheat on you anyways. keep it real