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PostPosted: Tue May 13, 2008 10:13 pm 
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hey ,

i have no probem opening or having a conversation with girls but i find it hard to make the next move , i do neg abit , but most conversations fizzle out quickly .

any ideas guys ?


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PostPosted: Tue May 13, 2008 11:16 pm 
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Dude, have you read any PU books?


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build rapport
talk about anythings, but with emotion
escalate kino

close 8)

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Alright. To keep the conversation interesting, first of all you gotta change this idea of "I don't know what to talk". Remember you're a PUA!! You gotta show confidence...

So after opening a set. Let's say you got their attention. Now realize this example:

You're a salesman and trying to sell any product. After got the attetion of a person, what would you say???

You would talk about the characteristcs of product. You're trying to sell it, so you need to impress the customer. You need to be convincing enough to make the customer buy it.

Now turn this example into your field. You're the product! And guess what?
Girls need this product.
You just need to give them enough VALUE of the product.

That's what we call DHV ( Demonstration of High Value ).
After opening you should convince the girl that you're awesome, and you wanna to build this attraction of her to you.

SO you can tell her stories about of your own life. Something funny, but not vomiting all words. Say it pausedly.

Like:

You: "Hm I just got back from a travel... "
She: "Really? Where were you?"
You: "Netherlands... Crazy place there.... they have the biggest anything of the world... bla bla "

Show her that you're a nice guy, tell stories....

Than you can use some NEGS.

A NEG is something you say to keep the girl suprised. It's something you say that she's not expecting, in a way to laugh of her. Not to lower her, but to make fun of her.

You: "Yeah, and out there on Netherlands, they smoke pot just like you..."
She: "But I don't smoke pot.."
You: "Oh really? I thought you did, you're eyes are so red... " *(This is a NEG )

Or if she says:
She: "I really love smoke some weed!! "
You: "Really? So I'll finish this conversation now. You won't even remember my name tomorrow..." ( That's a NEG again . )

This helps you to make her desires you. All the guys would say good things to her, instead you're not saying. That's what girls want, DIFFERENT GUYS.

So, next step DHV, NEGS.

IF you can get this one. I'll move to next step, ok?

See ya!

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PostPosted: Wed May 14, 2008 12:40 pm 
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build rapport
talk about anythings, but with emotion
escalate kino

close 8)

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lol that sums it up pretty good ;)
I don't like to advertise my blog, but I wrote a pretty nice article on how to easily pick up girls (1st blog at the bottom). It covers the "basics" in an efficient way. No Bullshit and fluff talk, that you have to read through with a lot of the "gurus".

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