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PostPosted: Sun May 11, 2008 8:34 pm 
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Since I’m new on this forum, I think it’s appropriate to start by telling why I want to become a PUA. First, of course I want to improve the critical areas of my life and what’s more critical that sex and relation with women? But there is another more specific reason.

Even before knowing about this PUA stuff, I didn’t have big problems with 6s and 7s, and occasionally I could snatch some 8 too. But 9s have almost always been off limits for me and 10s on another planet altogether. Why is that such a big issue for me? Well, I have a kind of fetish; I only get aroused by tall slim girls with looong perfect legs and small rock-hard asses. In a word, the typical characteristics of the models, that can be only found among the 9s and especially the 10s. Even a small amount of fat, which most men consider perfectly acceptable or even endearing, is a turn-off for me. Of course, I have since long realized that this narrow taste range is a source of problems, and I have talked with a few shrinks about it. None had any answer, except one, who told me to try the following: I should sit in front of the picture of a girl a little below my strict requirements, try to get excited, pound my mojo and blow a load thinking to her. It didn’t work. I couldn’t reach any orgasm, even pounding myself. It felt also a little depressing, that I should reduce my goals in order to adapt to another reality. I’m a true admirer of perfect feminine beauty; it’s one of the best things in the world, so why should I give it up?

To make a long story short, in all my life I only once laid a girl who somewhat met my requirements, and so I only had one orgasm (ok two, but in the same night with the same woman counts as one, and masturbating in front of pics of Elle McPherson and Emma Sjöberg counts as zero). With the other girls, I pound them but I feel no pleasure, I only do it to feel that I’m a man and can satisfy a gal.

Now, I’m not writing this because I believe that somebody can give me some magic bullet to solve this problem, except the advice to work hard to improve my skills and reach the 9 and 10 level, and some tips how to proceed towards that goal. However it feels somewhat good to be able to tell this to somebody, and if there is any of you that have similar problems, feel free to write me on the public board or privately.

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PostPosted: Mon May 12, 2008 10:49 am 
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Well, since nobody seems to have any comment about my msg, perhaps I should reformulate myself in a more specific way:
Which is the method that is more effective with women of great physical beauty, not only limited to one-night stands but keeping a door open for long term relationship? And what are the methods and 'mPUAs' that one should weed out? Today it seems that everybody and his dog is creating his own method and opening his own seduction school. By now there must be quite a lot of scammers, who just try exploit the market without offering good 'products'.


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Read everything you can, watch everything you can, and more importantly practice everything you learn.

Learn by trial and error what works better.

One thing I will say though, is that it is not important how the woman looks when sarging, it is only their self-image that should affect your sarge.


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PostPosted: Mon May 12, 2008 11:11 am 
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One thing I will say though, is that it is not important how the woman looks when sarging, it is only their self-image that should affect your sarge.
If I understand correctly, you mean that what affects one's sarging is not so much how the woman looks in reality (or how she looks for you), but how she considers herself beautiful, which in turn mostly depends on how her social circle considers her. An 8 who for some reason is seen by other people - and by herself - as a 10, would be difficult to sarge as a real 10. And a 10 who consider herself a 7, would be easy as a 7. However, in my experience, with very beautiful women real beauty and self-awareness tend to coincide. HB9/10 are aware of their physical value - and the people around them too. True, some girls may have problems with self-image, but generally very beautiful women are so pampered by men that they rarely underrate their own beauty or suffer from inferiority complex.


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One thing I will say though, is that it is not important how the woman looks when sarging, it is only their self-image that should affect your sarge.
If I understand correctly, you mean that what affects one's sarging is not so much how the woman looks in reality (or how she looks for you), but how she considers herself beautiful, which in turn mostly depends on how her social circle considers her. An 8 who for some reason is seen by other people - and by herself - as a 10, would be difficult to sarge as a real 10. And a 10 who consider herself a 7, would be easy as a 7. However, in my experience, with very beautiful women real beauty and self-awareness tend to coincide. HB9/10 are aware of their physical value - and the people around them too. True, some girls may have problems with self-image, but generally very beautiful women are so pampered by men that they rarely underrate their own beauty or suffer from inferiority complex.
Yes you understood me perfectly.

I agree, most attractive women know that they are attractive, but when you find one that has LSE, you don't need to neg quite so much. Bare in mind that the really thin girls that you are looking for will probably be told quite often that they are too thin, that they don't eat enough, and that they look ill etc etc. That means their self image is likely to be lower than your image of them.


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Hey Clancey, thanks, that's a new perspective you gave me. I was always used to think that - for women at least - the rule is that you can never too rich or too thin... However it's true also that many people often tend to say to thin girls the phrases you mentioned. Now that I think of it, I believe that my mother, who was very thin and probably a factor who influenced my tastes, had some kind of inferiority complex for looking weaker and frailer than her plump friends! So perhaps it's the same for many of those thin long-legged models... Perhaps when they were little they were harassed or even beaten by the uglier but stronger girls, and that has affected their self-confidence. I remember reading that Kristanna Lokken as a teenager was mobbed by the other girls who called her 'pink flamingo' because of her long legs and pale complexion!


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