I was In town visiting my Sister For her Birthday recently. Towards the end of the night I spotted HB10 sitting at the table by herself. I walked over sat down faced half away from her and started introducing myself to the 4 or so empty chairs pretending to shake hands ect.


HB10 *giggles* what are you doing?

Oh just introducing myself to all your friends.

Hb10 *giggles* I'm the only one here.

Well I better leave you here having all this fun.

Hb10 or you could stay and talk to me (would that be considered an IOI?)

Alright but I have to get back to all my friends soon *points* to a table full of people.

Anyways I ended up spending 25 mins with alot of neg, and 2-3 kino. The more I did it but the more I realized how smart this chick was and not the ditzy blonde I falsely assumed she would be. I found that with every Neg not only did she have a comeback, that was just as good most of the time hers where better Practically leaving me with no response. For the Kino it was like she almost kinoed me.

I Pulled the time constraint cause I realized I was getting now where. Here's how I left

It's been great talking to you, but your being greedy my friends want to spend time with me aswell

Hb10 *laughs* Well if your willing to invest all that time in me, and walk away the go ahead.

i was stunned i ended up going home with her, but quite obviously only because she wanted to.



I later found out from my sister that she is a Pyschologist.


So a few questions.

How do you handle someone who clearly knows how to handle this type of behaviour.

Even Though I got what I wanted, I still lost the game because in the end it was really her who did the playing.

How did you lose the Game if you got what you wanted? The Game is about both people getting what they wanted, and nobody being played.

Psychologist or not, she wouldn't have gone home with you if she wasn't attracted to you.

Hell, she sounds like a winner. I'd keep her.

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Lo' there do I see My Father.
Lo' there do I see the line of My People, back to the beginning.
Lo' they do call to me, they bid me take my place among them.
in the Halls of Valhalla, where the brave may live forever.

i've got to agree with Fiction, there is only one goal in any game, to win! and how do you win in this game? by picking up a girl. who cares that she was able to have a come back to every neg you threw at her or whatever. you were able to gain her interest, mantain it, and build rapport.

good job!

If every girl were as intuitive as you make this one out to be, and less judgemental, there would not be a need for forums such as these.

I think my biggest gripe is I don't like the fact that I was infact the one being played

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its like the guys role and the girls role swapped

how interesting, but i recon the outcome is what counts. compare it to golf (i got a text asking to play lol) if u feel like u do a shit shot it may not be just coz of the feeling. i once did a shit feeling shot and it was the furthest and straihtest ive ever hit. so its all about the outcome

Where you played? Ideally, the game is about making everyone else work to get you--they them use their psychological tactics to draw YOU in.

Honestly, if you had a choice between working a grueling 9-5 job and pulling in a decent salary, or making an initial investment and then getting passive income (stocks, real estate, private businesses owned) as you go, which would you take?

You made a good initial investment and it paid off in high dividends with minimal effort on your part. Most investors would kill for that luck. Go focus on more important things now--like a threesome!

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Lo' there do I see My Father.
Lo' there do I see the line of My People, back to the beginning.
Lo' they do call to me, they bid me take my place among them.
in the Halls of Valhalla, where the brave may live forever.