i guess this can work either ways. lets say you're in class and you're talkin to this girl. when class is over you say you need to go to the mall for something and she can come. whats the best response you can give without lookin like a loser thats gonna go to the mall by himself. this can apply too for Day 2s i suppose.

i ask this question because there was this girl in my english class who im pretty sure has some interest, however i never established any rapport or attraction with her, just alot of dhv-ing. well my homeboy told me to ask her to go to lunch with us, so when i got the chance i said to her

"hey, me and B are going to go eat you can come with us."

she looked at me and gave me her best "dissapointed" look and said sorry but i have errands to do. obviously this was a rejection because she has to eat sooner or later, why not sooner. anyways i just blew it off and said, "Hey B, she doesn't wanna go"

Now i'm trying to talk to this girl in my history class and we had a pretty good day 1. could have been much better. on wednesday im gonna try to build more rapport and attraction with her. i wasnt in a rush because i know ill see her wednesday. im gonna see if she wants to come to the mall while i pick out a backpack she doesn't even need to talk, just stand there and look pretty. does the last part sound like too much like begging? if it does, how can i keep my dignity in case she says shes busy or has plans? i was thinkin brush it off as nothing. but what do you guys think, what do you say when she has plans, or just says no to the "date"