alright so ive been hanging with this girl (HB7) for a few months now and i kinda like her. Shes a hired gun so i only hang out with her when shes at work.

A while back I was stuck at a mall and I decided to go down town. so I called her up and asked if she wanted to go for sushi (yeah just randomly.). She said yes but she was at work so another time.

I saw her that Friday and as I was walking out she said that we were going for sushi together that week I laugh said alright and left.

I texted her latter that week and it turns out she was moving so she had no time.

Last Friday she we made plans for Wednesday to go after my work shift.

now here is my problems:
1. I have no keno escalation with her. cuz shes a hired gun shes behind a counter most of the time so its not like i can do keno stuff. i don't want to fall into the friend zone.

2. shes going away for a month to Europe and she doesn't want a boyfriend . no i donut know if i want to be her boyfriend but it is an obstacle.

I kino hired guns over the counter without a problem, you just have to get them leaning over the counter to hug you, hold your hands, etc. Now if you get her out from behind the counter, you start right off the bat with a hug, playful shoves and stuff while walking or sitting side by side, escalate from there.

Who cares if she's moving in a month? That just means there's not gonna be any commitment, doesn't mean you can't have some fun together. Let her know you're not looking for any sort of commitment, you just wanna hang out and have some fun together before she takes off. Not a problem as far as closing her either, cause even though she's leaving, she will still be attracted, still want sex.

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thanks for the advice. ill try the keno stuff rye suggested. also shes going to Europe for a month then coming back.

CS: hahaha i dunno about marry were both pretty young for that (20 and 18)