So a girl i have been interested in was all over me at a club. I built a lot of comfort and trust and kino (while dancing and telling her stuff like "it feels like we've known each other so long, yet it's only been a little over a week") and they were well received. We then kissed and made out a bit before i stopped it saying we went too far. We danced the rest of the night with loads of body contact and rubs and kisses. She even whispered "i love you, Biofire" in a hug. I left her with my necklace (the "you're not a thief are you? i want this back next time we meet" gambit) and she was just glowing.

Now 2 days later, she has still not yet called, so i did. Turns out she wanted to call but was afraid to interrupt me if i was doing something so she left me messages and a facebook message (stuff i never check out of lazyness). But yeah big problem is she was waaaay more drunk than i thought she was, and i could feel some awkwardness whenever i tried talking about that night. She has memory holes about the whole thing and may not remember certain things we did (although we did dance for 1h30, so she must remember SOME things).

As we said goodbye, she wanted to arrange a time when we could meet, i told her i have a hectic week to which she replied that i could call her whenever to go out or call in the morning and she'll go out.

So i was thinking of what to say next time i see her. The best thing i came up with was "Since there was so much alcohol involved, i will disregard what we did that night, except that we had a lot of fun. Alcohol doesn't make you do stuff you don't want to do, it just makes you do stuff you wanted to do but were reluctant to do, so i am ready to give this another chance by starting this the good way"

I also thought of going in without really mentioning the night and just assume that she likes me and tease her/kino.

Or just ending it and moving on

So what do you think i should do? If you have a suggestion, please mention it, thanks!

Well she deffinately didn't flake on you so I would keep going after her. It's not a lost cause so why not see where it takes you?

As for what to say I think what you have is a little long and wordy. I would just keep it short and simple. As opposed to telling her that you are disregarding what happend that night, I think I would just show it through how you act when you're with her.

When you call her up say something like, "We seemed to really connect the other night. Why don't you join me for such and such event?" Pick some thing fun and during the day. Deffinately tease and kino her, but be sure to calibrate. It seems like she's a little uneasy about everything so start off slowly and see where things take you. Otherwise great job man!

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if i were you i would just call her up and ask if she wants to kick it and say you had a good time the other night. Just short and simple, dont over analyze and put yourself in a mental battle. If she told you to call her and hasnt avoided you your pretty much in. just stay cool homie