And i have no idea what to do. I dated her about 1 1/2 or 2 years ago and now im starting to think i want her back. What should i do? i know she wants to meet up with me soon to catch up and all...but i am soooo not prepared!

Not prepared how? Most guys don't get a second chance like this with an ex who's gone UP on the scale. If she's the one asking you to get together, sounds like the ball's in your court now.

This actually sounds more like one of those, "Hey. I'm hot now so now I'm going to flaunt it and show you what you missed out on." scenarios.

Yeah she might just be trying to rub it in your face. There was a chick back in my glory days that had an absolute crush on me. Sorta shut her down lol. She was a 6 back then, now she's a 9. I just started talking to her recently, she totally knows she's hot now haha, but I just pretended that it never even occurred to me that she went up a notch and that I had absolutely zero attraction to her. Made her go absolutely nuts cause I guess she figured that she was hot enough to have me chasing after her now. I didn't give her that satisfaction and I ended up with her number. I could probably LTR her when I get back. I think I will actually. So yeah... don't let her know that she is a goddess now and you might get her. Or at least become good friends with her and use her as a pivot.

nice work man. tap that ass. play cool and allways make her chase u.

I don't know why she would flaunt it...she broke up with me. She did just recently break up with her b/f and shes not the type to sleep around, so i dont think she's just trying to fuck me, since she doesnt have a bf now. I think she really just wants to get together to catch up or what not haha. It would be cool if she gets interested in me again, but i'm not really sure how to go about it Oh, one thing i wanted to ask...If we go somewhere to eat something, should i pay for hers? or should i try to only buy one and share whatever we get? like lets say we stop by a pinkberry, what should i do?

Thats what I was thinking stay away shes only trying to pwn you

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Don't read into it without the information needed to figure out what her intentions are. Maybe she wants to try a relationship again, maybe she wants to fuck you, maybe she wants to fuck with you, who knows and you can't figure that out till you check it out further.

Don't pay for her, let her pay for herself, this is a cardinal rule, follow it. Don't share unless she's sharing hers, or it's just a taste, but don't buy something and then let her have half, that's just like buying her something.

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awesome okay...i still don't feel like i know everything i should be doing, but obviously, i shouldn't show too much interest right? what are some of the important things i should keep in mind at this stage?

you already dated her, so you should be comfortable with her, or if its been awhile, once youve talked for a few moments you should be back in a comfort zone.
After that just go with the flow, try and read her the best you can and take it from there, keep in mind she knows you too, so be yourself, cause she will no if your acting.

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