| Hey guys! I'm Sinch and I'm 16. I'm an AFC. I have a dreadful monotone (how do you fix something like that? Should I sing or something lol), I need to work on my posture and I'm never happy. It wasn't always like this though.
Two years ago I could of gotten any girl I wanted. I was confident, I had all the AMOG's in school following me around and even the teachers threw me a little respect. I had all the girls in school wired, I could have hooked up with anyone I wanted. Well, maybe not like PUA style (wasn't THAT good haha), but I could make any girl my girlfriend is what I'm trying to say haha. I was always happy. If i wasn't running around surrounded by guys who were laughing and with chicks on both my arms, people would think that I was having a bad day. I was captain of the soccer team, I totally commanded respect.
I could walk into a cafe smiling and all the heads would turn. I wasn't overly attractive, quite the opposite actually. I wore these dreadful glasses that made me look like an asshole. But I worked those glasses. I smelt like poo all the time but girls were still all over me. An 8 in like, grade 9 had an absolute crush on me. Guys in grade 12 respected me, I could've had a girl in grade 12 if I wanted. The girls wanted to be with me and the guys wanted to be me. This was 2 years ago. Today, I'm sitting by myself in a room typing up what I once was. I could still be that guy, but I'm not. Because I made the greatest mistake ever. Now, I'm a tool on a forum looking for guys to help me be the guy I am. I'm typing this up so that NONE of you EVER make this mistake. It will destroy you, I've even thought about suicide more then once. But I don't think I have it in me to do something like that. I've tasted the best life had and I'm not going anywhere until I taste it again. Now, for the mistake.
On December on 2006, my dad told me that I was moving to Australia. I was so confused, I didn't know what things were like in Australia. How was I supposed to act in Australia? Was I good enough? Do I need to be muscular? Do I need to use deodorant? What if they don't like me? What if I become alone? I was 14, how was I supposed to know the answers to those questions? So I left on the 20th of January, surrounded by 5 crying girls (all 8+HB's) and the guys that hoped to be me. I lost everything that day.
I arrived, 6 hours later. I was scared and confused, and my dad was being an asshole. He signed me up to some posh ass school to try and make up for tearing my world in half. School didn't start for another 2 months, so I spent 2 months by myself in a new country, hating everything. I picked up magic, if I ran into a bully maybe I could make glass shatter with my mind and tell the meat-head it was for real. Maybe he'll believe me and leave me the fuck alone. I stopped working out. I stopped smiling. I lost my confidence and all my shine, I died in a week. 14 years on top of the social ladder had been smashed in a week. I spent the rest of the holiday being alone and not talking. I forgot how to be an AMOG.
When school started, I was scared out of my fucking mind. 2 months of solitude had taken a heavy toll on me, it had destroyed me. I was a fucking mess. I got contacts and started using deodorant, because I felt I was losing something and I needed to cover it up with something. I was introduced to 4 guys who tried to get me to talk, but you can't talk after you've been quite for 2 months. So I didn't. They left, they were bored. So I sat by myself. The next week I met another AFC and we talked. We became friends and he introduced me to 2 AMOGs, who are my pretty good friends now. But I got in with an AFC. I was locked, done. I thought that that was the way you acted in Australia, I mirrored the AFC. I met no girls last year. I made the great mistake and my life was over. I decided to conform, to blend in with the walls. I decided to stop doing sport, I decided to be a nice guy (to get tooled by hot chicks) and I decided to stop living life.
Now I realize my attraction was in my confidence. I was the centre of the universe, when I decided to blend into the fucking walls, I disappeared. I was a nobody. I'm still a nobody.
NEVER become one of the guys. You are God, you can give and take. Fuck everybody, you don't need that shit. You're around to have a good time, and if those assholes are nice enough to you, they might have a good time to. Never be shy. Never be afraid. Never frown. Never talk softly, what you have to say is the most fucking important thing in the world. Never become lazy. Never isolate yourself. When an asshole comes to you looking for a fight, smash his head into the ground. Don't let him walk through you. Don't want to fight? You better have a really good comeback that will destroy him. If you start allowing yourself to fade, you won't stop. So don't start. Don't do what I did. The answers to all those questions are clear to me now. It's 'Why the fuck am I asking all these questions? These guys are lucky to even be around my ass'. Does it sound arrogant? Well, yes =P. But i was happy. I'm here to bring back the AMOG. There's nothing more important to me then that. I want to live again. Hope you guys can help. =). Feels good to get that shit out of my system.
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