ok im in highschool.I have been trying to game this HB8.5 for maybe 3 weeks now its a slow process and losing attraction day by day. we both give each other IOI's with eye contact everytime we walk past eachother. i have chased her once on the second week to have a conversation because i thought she would chase me in return but nothing! and im the one that approtches she never approtches me. so on the third week i just froze her out. i dont know whats going on!

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also i think this might be a test for me? any opinons?

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OK, lets start over. Ignoring her is not going to help, chasing her will make you look bad.

Lets just step back, take a deep breath, then start all over again with her.

You have to be able to DHV, not getting around it, if you want to game this girl.

#1 - Work on your inner game. Build up your confidence. You are the prize.

#2 - Do your very best to become emotionally unattached to the outcome of your conversations with her.

#3 - Be ALPHA, smile. Dont act needy

get yourself a nice opener, like "Real quick, I need a girls outlook. My friend just got a 3 legged dog, and wants me to name it. I would have named it Skippy because of the way it runs, but its a girl dog. You can't name a girl Skippy, lol. Any ideas?"

Yes its silly, and no its not ment to make her attracted to you, its just ment to get you talking in an indirect approach.

THEN

BE cocky funny.
you - "Hey I like your (whatever)."
her - thanks
you - did you buy it new?
her -

give her a hard time dude. Treat her like a bratty little sister, untill you get 3 IOI's, then PULL THE TRIGGER, give her an IOI back, ask her out, get her number, whatever, just do SOMETHING after 3 IOI's

happyy hunting

okay thanks but how am i sopose to talk to her when the only time i see her is when she is walking and i rarely see her staying in one spot.

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pull her aside and use an opinion opener.

Or just fuck with her and next time u walk past each other be like"

"Are you shy? You check me out every day in the hallway and haven't come up and talked to me"
- tease her some too.

Ignoring her / freeze outs / .... won't work because she doesn't even know you you can only freeze out someone whos already chasing you or interested in you imo.


also its high school, most of my hook-ups were by finding a freind who knew the chick and then get the easy introduction through the freind, it already socially validates you some so see who of your boys knows her or girls.

yeah thanks for that tip and is there a reason she dosent approatch me or tries to talk to me?

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anyone?

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she doesnt see you as if you have enough high value. i have the EXACT same situation as you do that its scary. we're living parallel lives based on this info u gave. but whats different is that the girl approaches me now and in order to get her to do that......DEMONSTRATE HIGHER VALUE. if she doesnt approach you, punish her by letting her see that you're talking to other girls in other groups, or with other guys. Just demonstrate that you're alpha, and IF she approaches you or opens you, NEG her, then game her

okay thanks so should i stop talking to her/ chasing her until i build up my social value and wait until she approtches me. or should i still talk to her?

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Dude, you need to become emotionally UNattached.

Whether you talk or dont talk is strictly up to you, just like BandBadBoy said, be Alpha.

how?

Pretend she is your bratty little sister.

Its not so much what you say, its how you say it. Treat every girl like a bratty little sister and you will be talking their language. Trust Me