cocky and funny things/ballbusting/negs.

I have a tendency to do them, and quail a bit if i get a negative, especially from this one girl, who I had one-itis from.

Basically, I had some vibes with her while I was an AFC, by naturally bein funny etc, but once we connected I started being clingy and possessive and wussy.

Naturally I had no clue what was pushing her away, and then this jerk of a natural stole her from me.

So now, I'm trying to change my personality and all, but she's still kinda coldish, even when I'm trying to make fun of her/neg/cocky funny.

any help? should I just let her go? I still feel like I can get her back (I'm in high school - junior - and her bf is graduating this year)

-4nim4

haha wow, your living my life a few weeks ago. even down to the jerk part.. lol

Let her go... it's a lost cause. Only after a few years, you could try again. But for now, you need to loose that interaction.

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thanks will do.

Not sure how long u dated or how old you are and I feel these are important things.

First of all you got wussy the best way to get a girl back after that and its only like 50% in my opinon is to ignore her, NOT call her, not think about her and start dating new girls who are equal or hotter then her to make her jealous.

Also brush your shoulder off and remember what u learned here NEVER become wussy, and ALWAYS be challenge, if a girl wants a break give her a break never beg for her love always act dis-interested even if you've been dating for 5 years for example. I mean don't be a dick to ur love but still dont' be head of heels for her.

Girls don't want a wuss whos like yes ye syes

Girls don't want a 100% alpha whos like no no no (although maybe for 1 night they might... they do actually lol)

Girls want a gentleman whos in between, say no to your girl once in a while.

If you were dating for a while and she really likes you she'll eventaully call. IF its sudden withint 1-2 months ignore the 1st call then call her back in a few days.

You need to be the OPPOSITE of why you broke up. Analyze why you broke up and destroy those qualities, if its because you were a pussy you cannot act like you ahe ANY feelings for her, NEVER talk about anything serious with her if your with her again, NEVER ask her to hang out, DO NOT try to hook up with her when you are with her at least NOT the first time. After that bring up SLOWWWW kino the 2nd time u hang out then ESCALATE but really u cannot come off as needy or still interested or you are fucked.

Find a rebound fast she obviously did. Also this relationship of her with the new guy is prob low probability that it will last long esepcially if your 22 years or younger so don't worry you will get another shot with her or at least another phone call but I would not chase her thats why you lost her. Make her jealous and make her question why she broke up with you but it all needs to be indirect.