ok all the topics i see are about how to pick up girls..

ok how about this...

how to unpickup the girl?

theres this girls i started seeing and shes been getting really annoying lately (clingy also) and im startin to get turned off, we are "seeing" each other and i want to get out of what i created before its to late. help... how can i get out of this without causing to much drama?

There's a phrase I use to "un-pickup," as you call it...

"I'm emotionally unavailable."

Discuss in detail the fact that you are not looking for the same thing in the relationship as her, and then throw that out there- "emotionally unavailable."

Also, if you are experiencing problems with this more than once, you may be making a mistake in the interactions called "managing her expectations." You should never give the impression that you are looking for anything more than really are. Throw in some comments in your interactions telling what you're looking for.

I usually say, "I'm single, and I like being single. I've got options, but I don't date- if the right girl came along and really changed my opinion, I would be fine with a relationship... but I just don't see that happening any time soon."

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i like the idea of "im single, and i like being single" i think the emotionally unavailable part will just lead her to asking "what u mean" then i wudnt know how to reply back.

i am trying to end this shit off in good terms, not like try and get her even more attached to me.

im just afraid that she is one of those psycho girls that will threaten to suicide or like get really mad and tell my family we had sex or some crazy ass shit.