just like most of you, i was once an AFC and i screwed up with a lot of girls.. i always got dumped after a few weeks but i always kept contact with alot of the girls

so my new theory was about how to get a girl back if you lost her (or if you cant help it and have a one-itis)

i tried this many times with a full success rate, i call it the 2.5 month rule:

lose complete contact with the girl for 2.5 months.. no talking to her, emailing her, responding to an email (unless theres a specific question you have to answer.. i mean HAVE TO.. but keep it straight to the point) and just have no contact with her at all!!

after 2.5 months, call her up (or email her if you cant call her for some reason).. and just ask her how shes doing and how you should catch up sometime soon, make a date during the day (at nights better, but probably hard to get her to commit to).. then when you see her, play it just like picking up a brand new girl.. you have to act like a brand new guy (cuz youre a PUA now.. so youll be more smoother and hopefully not screw anything up) so anyways, remind her through your actions why she was attracted to you in the first place (but PUA stylee this time).. and itll be easy for her to errupt all those old feelings again, but even stronger now that you know how you screwed up the first (probly by acting like a wuss, that was my original problem)

..trust me, itll work everytime.. you need 2.5 months apart first so you can recover in her mind

this will work on girls in the 'friend' zone too.. trust me, try it and let me know in a couple months.. until then, go out sarging budds!

let me know what you think of the theory after reading this too.. i like getting input

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Well its quite logical and understandable but the risk for a fall backs always there but its nice nonetheless..if your one itis is that severe that is


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Sounds like it should work...

Field tested how many times though?

M8 if this works I'l be really lucky As a former "niceguy" I allways ended up in the LJBF swamp.

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Come see conquer, or some1 else will

Sounds nice.... just losing complete contact and emotions with the girl.... pretty theory man. Just, may I say, try to specify this apart time adequate to the girl. For some girls, who meet a LOT of people everyday, it may be less. And for these shy, unsocial girls prolong the time. Anyway, sounds excellent. Only make sure that there is a change in your attitude.

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You don't know the future, you can't change the past. The only thing that matters is THE CURRENT MOMENT.

Interesting, without even reading this I've been doing that lately. Digging up some Ex's and approaching them with my new attitude. So far so good. I was a classic AFC before so I'm approaching them as the new me and they seem to like my new found confidence.

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Seduction isn't making someone do what they don't want to do.Seduction is enticing someone into doing what they secretly want to do already.

I think its a lot more complicated than just waiting 2.5months.
Theres a lot of underlying social issues you must demonstrate.

What do you think about projecting to her your new sucess with women. Should you hide it? or should you let her know you have mutiple partners and have no problem with girls?

Charge, i would NEVER bring up or talk about other girls when im around a girl.. i like to make her feel like she is the only one (girls love romance and being swept off their feet) but at the same time, if she hears about me hanging out with other girls, or sees me, i dont make it a big deal (but this helps to create jealousy, which will make her like me more cuz if other girls are hanging out with me, than there must be something special about me).. also, if a girl wants to hang out with me and i already made plans, then ill tell her how i already have plans with a friend.. if she asks "with who?", its cool to a girls name (youre still creating jealousy without acting like youre rubbing it in her face.. it just kind of came up.. but leave it at that, and change the subject)

Acespade, i tried this recently with 3 girls and it worked on all 3 with awesome success.. i got too anxious and didnt wait 2.5 months on a 4th girl and she flaked on me (which is understandable, so i cut off complete contact with her again, and will try again in another 2.5 months)

i believe that this will work on any girl cuz they need 2.5 months for you to recover in their mind.. it seems simple, but trust me.. try it yourself, field test some of your own theories and let me know.. together we can picking up women down to a science.. good luck boyss!

Caps

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I agree, you shouldn't totally flaunt the fact that you've been around since that last time that you saw her but at the same time bringing up small things will DHV. Obviously in her mind she'll see that other girls see worth in you and that will get her interest. Is it something she missed? Is it something new? Keep her guessing just don't come out and say "I've f**ked 12 girls since I last saw you because thats sure to get you nowhere.

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Seduction isn't making someone do what they don't want to do.Seduction is enticing someone into doing what they secretly want to do already.

last time i did something like this to an ex of 3 years I wound up dating her for another 7 months