went out sunday night and was talking to a 9HB not relay spitting game to much or any thing and getting on very well but 4 one thing this girl had at least D cup chest with a low cut top.having red the game styles says not to starre at it like every AFC in the place.but i mean i was consontration so hard on not looking down at them i sliped in and out of interview mode i near detached a retina lol!
any tips on how to get over this?

thanks!

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Now there is a feeling I can relate to. I had a woman smack me up the chin once for looking at her rack.

Here's a very simple trick I found works very well in these situations - I'm aware the may sound rediculously simple try to keep focused on her pupils and her eyes - get her breasts out of your line of sight. It works on a deeper level of your brain and allows the "out of sight out of mind" process to kick in and works for most men I've given it to. Despite wanting to stare at a woman's chest they find that this allows them to put their focus elsewhere without terrible effort.

Remember that she knows she has big tits - she's more than aware when she puts on a bra every morning. Women notice details and even if she looks like she didn't notice you glancing at her tits there's a 95% chance she did.

- Chris

I'm no expert, but depending on the comfort level, how much you feel like taking a risk, and how C&F you wanna be, you can defuse a hell of a lot of pressure and open a new window by introducing them into the conversation, directly or indirectly. If she mentions them first, of course, then it makes it all that much easier. But then I'm lucky (or unlucky) enough to have a ton of really busty friends, so I'm used to already being in a situation where the tits are established and frequently discussed lol.

I would certainly imagine that, especially once you've established rapport, it's at least okay to let her catch you looking once.

remember she's a lady
so treat her like one and try not to get detracted

but i understand, it's her fault for dressing like that

she'll respect you more when you respect her as a person, rather then most typical men who treat her like a pig and stare at her

_Saiko

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Actually, typical men try not to stare incase they get caught. And if they do get caught looking, they feel all awkward and don't know what to say. It causes weird tension and they don't know how to control the situation. I'm gonna tell you something here which you really should know already... girls like to look and feel feminine. They want to look attractive, and some days they feel like showing off their boobs because it makes them feel feminine and they enjoy the attention - so long as it's not from a creepy old man in an overcoat. I know enough girls to tell you this with confidence, and believe me, they think it's pretty funny when guys stare at them and don't have the balls to come talk to them. By no means am I telling you to stare at them though, cos there are rules.

In the case that you're talking to her, of course it's better to look her in the eyes - but if you find your eyes straying then be honest with her! It's better than causing an awkward moment. "Ok seriously, It's really hard to concentrate on what you're saying with your boobs in my face like that, you wanna cover those up for a second?" Girls do have a sense of humour, you know. Let's face it, it'd be an insult if you didn't notice when she's obviously trying to flaunt her assets. But I don't mean shit like telling her they're nice or something, just make a joke about them distracting you.

If she catches you looking and you pretend like you weren't, she will either think you have no confidence or that you're a pervert. Next time you're talking to a friend and she has hers on display, make a joke about her boobs distracting you and she'll laugh and give you a playful hit on the arm or something. We're not living in the 50's, trust me.

"YOU'RE TITS ARE TOO DISTRACTING !!!!!!!"

Yell it as loud as you can. Then claw her immediately (look it up. origin: RSD). Or hug her. This will break her frame and social mask and will also break your own frame of nervousness. I am laughing as I am typing this right now, but I am confident that it'll work as long as you create a confident, unapologetic, and dominant frame after you yell that.

Reasons she won't hate you if you do this:
1. You're showing you have balls.
2. You are drawing the attention of the room to her. Women love attention. That's why she's wearing that risque top in the first place.
3. You're spiking her emotions and starting a great emotional roller coaster.
4. You're being one fun motherfucker lol.

She may show some fake contempt to this, but stifle it with your claw or hug and you'll be money. Laugh with a "don't worry, it's OK" attitude as you are doing this.

After that, stare at her tits all you want
I'd recommend implementing Ciaran's Shock and Awe tactic soon afterward.

Remember: you are a man and you don't apologize for it.

If you don't want to take that route... initiate some good solid eye contact, but don't worry if your eyes wander down to the tigalobitties. Just wander your eyes right back up to her eyes at the same speed. This conveys the unapologetic message, "Yes, I am checking you out. I know you're hot, you know you're hot, and I'm a man. So what?" If she calls you out, just verbalize that word for word lol.

yer thanks guy i think bring it up in convo is a relay good idea as well as a lot of eye contact was think of using "DAM IT I CANT CONSONTRATE WITH YOUR TITS STARTING AT ME" or sumthing like thats thanks guys!
hopfull will have a change to try it out soon and asuming i dont get a slap il post the results!

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I'm going through the same thing with my roommate. She has hearty boobs, so I look around the room like my eyes are a laser-pointer. I talk, make eye contact, then my eyes move left or right until her figure is out of my peripheral. Then I look down and come back up the same way. Its a split second tactic.

(I think my other roommate caught me looking, but she's hotter. She was wearing tight long john style tight pants that were wedged between her ass cheeks)

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haha good luck with your roomate man..lol..

i liked the yelling one chief.. really good EDIT: He spelled my name wrong -Chief

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haha... Magic trick...

get out a dollar

you: i bet you a dollar i can make your boobs jiggle without touching them...

her: okay

you: stare at her tits... wave your hands around, say a magic spell, say something funny

you: look her in the eye and say, ah, fuck it, hand her the dollar and give her boob a quick jiggle with your hand...

she'll laugh, you'll laugh, tension is released, and you'll probably not even feel the need to stare at her chest any longer.

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Wouldn't that get a REALLY healthy slap from a girl in most cases, unless you'd already made so much progress with the girl that she wanted you to go ahead and touch them anyway?

Wear glasses and put tape on the lower half of the lenses, so you can't see below neck level

I once stared straight at them and asked if they were crooked (neg) or if one is bigger than the other,, Depends on the gal and the conversation though, hell she might just want to prove to you they are perfect and not uneven or ?..... Plus... A women with a boob job loves to show them off any chance she gets, Its silicone peacunting at its finest...

I agree with this post.

I was out jogging on an indoor track not long ago. There was a girl that had a rather large bust, she had on a sweat outfit but a sports bra underneath with the top part of the sweat suit zipped really low. While she was jogging it was a major distraction. When she stopped for a drink of water i aproached her. said how i love to jog here because there are few distractions but for some reason today i cant seem to focus..she asked why, i then zipped up her shirt smiled and winked...she laughed and it was all good after that.

~ Mystic

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