Tonight there's a huge party in my town and I wanna get myself out of my comfort zone by approaching women. I figured out that I have improved a lot last month; I get approached often by girls that I have something in common with (same friends, same work, same school) but don't know that good. I also know about 3 girls who like me very much. 2 of them are considerd pretty. So I think my body language is good. However, I still haven't approached that much girls myself.

I think my inner game is improving rapidly, but I don't know really what to do. When I'm out it seems like I forget all the rules. I do have some succes, but all those steps of MM seems too much to remember.

What's the best way to internalize the mystery method. By reading it over and over again, or by starting to learn one thing? Could you guys give me an step by step how I can improve fast? It's not a big problem or something, but I wanna see improvement with unknown girls as well.

I'm looking forward to hear from you guys.

I'm in the middle of reading Mystery's book. I'm getting the same overwhelemed feeling that you have.

Reading can only get you so far. You have to go out into the field and do it for yourself. No it won't be perfect the first time you go out sarging, but nothing is ever perfect the first time. Everything takes practice.

My advice would be to go out and take one or two openers with you. Focus on those two until you become very comfortable with them. Then move onto the next thing you want to work on.

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Men fall in love with their eyes. Women fall in love with their ears.

Hopeless Romantic is right.

Speaking as a guy who has treaded the path of being a newbie a few times, because I have had a number of long-term-relationships since I started learning this stuff. Every time I get out of a relationship I go though getting to grips with the skills again.

And, as Hopeless Romantic says, one thing at a time is the best approach. One opener is all you need to start. Then, as you are learning Mystery Method from the book, next pick a gambit that continues the conversation and each time keep adding to your repertoire. But the best way of learning is to choose your material (keeping it simple) and get out and use it!

Methods let you improve your OWN game.

You don't need to follow ALL the steps. But you need to recognize when they're happening.

Like, You see a girl and go to open a set. If the set is open, you need to feel it, and go ahead.

MM's got lot of stuff you don't even use. You don't wanna be mystery. You wanna follow some advices that may help during inner game.

This is so simple:

FIND ( approach a girl )
MEET ( Open a set, Tell Short Stories, get names )
Atract ( DHV, Kino Escalate, NLP )
Close ( K-Close, Phone numbers, F Close )

This are all the steps. The method also bring you TOOLS to develop the method. That's wahy we read it. Trying to get some new IDEAS and new things to try on field.

Use a mirror to practice. Watch your own BODY LANGUAGE. ( I use to put the mirror next to the shower, so everytime I was showering to sarge, I was practicing too... )

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"The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed." - Carl Jung