Ok so one of my "girlfriends" is starting to act funny and I dont like it and dont know how to deal with it.

We hang out 3 times a week, shes fun to be around and is a fun friend also. Anyways last week we hooked up drunk, didnt fuck close but we got close.

This weekend (which would be yesterday) we were watching a movie and we started kissing. She puts her head in the pillow so I back off and freeze her out. I got this tickling routine that I run on girls, I came up with it back in my natural days. Its called the Charge Tickling Routine Maybe I'll post it in the routine section .Some reason girls LOVE to tickle me, so like usuall during the movie she was trying to tickle me. I ran the routine and minutes later we were making out heavily and she starts un-buckling my belt and going down my pants. I match her agression and start putting my hands down her pants. Then all of a sudden she puts her head down and stops all activity. She says how shes really bad at making out and not doing anything else. I say im perfectly fine with that and I just watch the movie and she goes home. Some people say I should have froze her out again but Im not going to be agressive to someone who doesnt seem to want it. I dont work like that.

When she leaves I think about what happens. I came to a conclusion that she just doesnt want to have sex with me. Somewhere I made a mistake. No biggie I have a few other "girlfriends". I then get a text message that reads:

I apologize im so lame ive got insecurity issues. i hope i dont make you feel bad about anything. but since im not clear on your feelings for me im afraid of feeeling dumb or.. something idk...i guess i dont want 2 do stuff and then expect anything from you. your hard to read and that adds to my insecurity / reluctance. u have pasts with intimidatingly beautiful girls i feel so inferior. im afraid of getting my ego hurt, dont want to like you too much u kno haahaa


WTF how am i suppose to respond to that?! I've texted her back but said nothing really major. This girl is a HB6 which is slightly above average. So I can understand insecurity issues. From what I can see she wants me to tell her that i like her sooooo much etc but she hasnt even been clear herself as to what she feels about me

I feel like just telling her that i dont deal with flakey behavior and we should just be friends

You sound like you dont REALLY want this one, maybe put her in the LJBF zone and maybe meet others through her? You could also lie like hell and end up screwin' this girl over just for some fun, which isn't really a good thing to do.

You should also make her feel more comfortable i guess, and tease her a lot more if shes feeling insecure. Ive dealt with an insecure HB9 that sorta did that, and i did a similar tickling routine on her until she was dry humping me, then just kept it at making up until she shoved her hand down my pants to get at the naughty bits

Yes I really dont want to date this girl haahaa. I dont think I could leave her on and tell her I love her just for sex. We were on aim tonight and the convo went like this.

Me: So why did you unbuckle my belt without intents on having sex. Were you just going to take it for a walk?

Her: dude i tried to apologize haha way to embarass me
im just bad like that
thats my flow of things i supose hahahah

Me: I just dont find flaky girls attractive, I think maybe we should just be friends


Im probably the first guy to tell her we should just be friends

The girl wants you to commit. You could fuck her over, but is it worth it for a 6 (your rep is an important thing to maintain)?

She's super insecure (as are most girls surprise surprise), but she also knows that once she gets sexually involved with you she'll become attached. I would drop it.