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PostPosted: Sat May 03, 2008 11:05 pm 
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Im 15 and in highschool. I want to be a more interesting person to talk to. So after 3rd period me and this girl walk together in the hallway to the next class, and sometimes our conversation gets boring. What would you guys do if you were walking side by side with a girl in the hallway and wanted to conversate with her. What are the mindsets? What inner game tactics are useful? What kind of things should i say?
this is not only for girls but also with my guy friends that when i walk with, sometimes i dont kno what to say. PLEASE HELP.


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PostPosted: Sat May 03, 2008 11:22 pm 
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no one is really a bad conversationalist some people just don't know how to go about it. Here is a simple technique I give to a lot of people that I have have cultivated from personal experience which makes a night and day difference.

Leave a lot of things open-ended in the discussion for her to be curious about (women are naturally curious). Make sure you give away as little at a time as possible so she has something to be curious about and get involved with. Also fill whatever you say with colorful emotion to make her constantly feel.

Instead making her sit there listening to you rant "I went to Vencice, Italy it was beautiful. I just spent two weeks there and we did X1, X2, X3, X4, X5."

Try like this...

You: “I just got back to the States”
Her: “Oh cool! Where did you go?”
You: “I went to Italy it was beautiful – We went hiking on some of the most amazing golden brown mountains in the world. there was gorgeous fields and mountains and immaculate architecture that just swept me away like nothing has ever done in my life.”
Her: “That sounds really amazing. What part did you go to?”
You: “Venice, I got to do some really wild stuff”
Her: “Cool! like what?”

It's even more ideal if you can start on something, get a woman wrapped in it and then end a convo and leave her wondering about how it ended(and thinking about you)

With this you can make a conversation that would otherwise be boring (you ranting about your trip) into an engaging and interactive story which she feels like she Is having input on even if you’re really controlling the conversation.

Another great advantage to this is that you leave her wondering (woman can’t walk away from curiousity like men can) and she will feel compelled to act upon that curiosity.

- Chris 8)


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PostPosted: Sat May 03, 2008 11:32 pm 
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Im 16 and in highschool, and i'll tell you what man, that shit is hard to talk to hot girls with your friends watching and other people.


Heres the thing that helped me.

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PostPosted: Sun May 04, 2008 2:23 am 
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I'm also in high school (17) and I gotta say that doing what Tyler Durden says in that youtube clip posted by Gay will pretty much ensure success. It's just human nature to follow those in control, so dictating every social situation that you're in (guy friends, mixed groups, HB, etc) and having unshakable confidence will inevitably draw people into your world. If you can embrace yourself and your values, people will have no choice but to embrace you, as well.

Live in your reality!


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PostPosted: Sun May 04, 2008 1:13 pm 
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I have similar problem.
I think the thing is to have something to talk about and know a lot of stuff and have experiences.

For example me. I talk really a lot when its about games like Warcraft 3 or Counter-strike and I can be really interesting person for pc gamers.I would say how i killed 2 person in 1 shot and bla bla .. and thats interesting for gamers.
So the thing is to have something to say.

When some group of friends talk about hiking.Then they would say about their hiking experience, but if u have never tried hiking then u have nothig to say.

And another example in your situation like in the school hallway , 1 friend comes to u and says " Hey I were in xxx club yesterday, it was so cool"
Then u would say " hey i was once there too " and so u would talk about xxx club and other clubs. Or if you know something about the club , like you heard somewhere that its dangerous club, then u would tell him how dangerous that club is.
But, if u have never been in a club or know nothing about clubs, you would have nothing to say. You would just say " ok, cool" and silence ...
Feel me?

So its important not to be at home all day and do boring shits.
You must be outside with friends do cool things. Also listen when others talk , read , collect informations from everywhere."Knowledge is power"

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PostPosted: Sun May 04, 2008 3:16 pm 
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I agree with LifeGosu for a bit.
On the other hand, sometimes I talk with a girl about something they never heard of and I keep it interesting. Then they wanna be able to talk with me about that. I once talked with a girl about a movie I really liked. She didn't know the movie but I told what it was about with passion, cause I really like the film. So she hired the movie and asked if I wanna go and watch it with her.

I like that a bit more than try to know everything in order to be able to talk to them. BE ON THE OTHER SIDE. If you're interesting enough people will try to keep the convo up.

To go a bit more ontopic, I'm trying to improve this skill myself as well. One thing that's doing wonders for me is to talk to people like you're best friends with them since kindergarten. So don't talk like: hey what's your name, where do you live, what school you're from. Talk about what you did today, how you feel, what your passionate about.


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PostPosted: Sun May 04, 2008 4:26 pm 
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yes they want to keep conversation going but only if u talk about some interesting stuff. So again "Knowledge is power"

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PostPosted: Mon May 05, 2008 5:33 am 
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good thread, i have to agree with Ghulias that when someone talks to me and keeps eye contact as if we have known each other for so long makes me want to talk to him even more as he/she is very open.

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PostPosted: Tue May 06, 2008 3:29 am 
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Good tips guys - being charismatic, funny, and charming allow the girl you're talking to to open up to you and feel comfortable, even if you barely know her. It causes you two to feel as if you've known each other for years and this will build instant attraction, due to your dominant upbeat personality.


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