Comfort Vs. Tension



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 Post subject: Comfort Vs. Tension
PostPosted: Tue Jun 27, 2006 2:16 pm 
Tension - unpredictability, confidence, sexual-tension
Comfort - friend, predictability, comon-ground

Comfort leads to seduction

Tension leads to assertive sexual mating moves

Are there any relations between comfort and tension?
What are the differences?
They both work but which ones do you prefer and why?


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 27, 2006 3:35 pm 
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Hey.
I personally use Comfort! I think its a better way to create rapport and for breaking the initial Physical Bond!!!
Also i find the Target is a lot more willing to take part in routines then!

But i find then, after you have isoated and then the target starts to persist, taking the attention off her and causing tention that way (Like turning away and talking to someone else or not saying anything at all) Usually makes them feel really uncomfortable and wanting to get back into the comfort zone!

An example i had from Saturday actually Demonstrates this -

Basically, long story short, me and my mate got 2 Girls back to his, he went into the bedroom and when i was getting really close to my target on the coutch, she kept pulling away - So finally i just got up and went to the kitchen - after bout 2 mins of making sum food, she followed me in! :lol: Only problem - My mate who is kinda seeing someone chickens out so her friend comes in and takes my target home! :( SO CLOSE! Lol


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 29, 2006 6:02 am 
Interesting, thanks for the story as well.


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 14, 2006 11:50 pm 
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I like tension alot. Comfort is usally the way I approach and get in contact with my target, but tension can also be a very good way to get in contact with woman. A combo where you leave target after you have made some comfort with her, and other woman show interrest in you will usually lead to some kind of follow up by your actual target. Which you can make use of to get her..

I was at a party some time ago and there was alot of tension, with me in center. It started out with comfort on 2 girls and ended up with (tension) 7 I think. It ended up with kissclose with 3 of them, 2 at the same time more than once and they all accepted it. Very weired, but that night I must have seemed very attractive for woman, alot more than usally..! :roll:


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 17, 2006 3:39 am 
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I think the ultimate is a mix, a daring banquet of tension and release. Do you know why we laugh? In evolutionary terms it is a release of tension. Heres an example: Youre watching a horror movie and the scary music is playing moving upward and upward towarda a cresendo. The hero walks along an empty garage, a lighter the only light in the room. The camera pans back. You know whats going to happen and BOOM! A cat jumps out in front of the guy. Your instincts kick in and you flinch/close your eyes and after, you laugh. It was how you relieved your tension. You have to amp up the tension deep so that its close to release (having sex) than you take it down a notch and run routines, comfort routines. Than you amp up the tension again, this time a little more. Keep doing this and you bring her closer and closer to the release without ever giving it to her.


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