Hey there,

I've been working the game for about 2 years now and got out of it for 7 months to try a serious relationship for a while. Broke it off 2 weeks ago and one week later gamed another girl, however, broke a few cardinal rules and now need to clean up the mess. New girl is someone who knew the ex tangentially and turned out to be good friends with a mutual friend of the ex. As you can imagine, drama ensued. Decided that I need to fix the mess because 1) need to maintain a decent reputation, 2) like the new girl and don't want to disrespect her.

I'd like to in one conversation to convey to the girl who likes me but is confused that this isn't that serious and that we can be casual friends/hookups. Normally I'd walk away but the situation is complicated and I don't want to leave a mess this close to home.

I figure all you PUA's out there might have some tips on how to defuse the situation.

Decided to give some more detail.

After I dumped the girlfriend I re-read mystery's book to get myself back in the right frame of mind. Opened this girl at a party, built comfort and kiss closed with a number. Next night time bridged and after 2 venue changes was close to ending back at a seduction location when the ex showed up at the bar with the mutual friend. Tried to bail with the girl to avoid the ex and went to a party but the ex was there again! Upset with me she drank herself into a vomiting mess and took herself out of the equation. Hooked up with the new girl but she's now experiencing some guilt/regret despite the fact that she is attracted to me and would like to see more of me.

What I need to do is say the right thing to her before this weekend, don't feel like sarging again this weekend because I'm busy, she's a 9, and I am going abroad for 3 months. I'd like a sure lay for the weekend before getting out of dodge.

What the fuck is the right thing, I'm drawing a blank since she knows I'm leaving