Ok so for the 2nd day in a row I need some advice regarding online sarging...

So theres a new chat feature on facebook where you can IM your facebook friends...anyways theres this HB8.5 I went to highschool with, havent talked to her in almost 2 years...we were never really friends, although we were acquinted and talked to her abit during classes...

Last week she randomly IMs me on this new chat thing and I was totally caught off guard. I used abit of C+F, negged her abit about her ditziness, and tried to DHV myself as best as I could. At one point she mentioned "you gotta call me up sometime" but she never gave it to me, and b/c shes a ditz she probly didnt realize I dont have it, and she moved on with the convo. Overall I thought the convo went well, I ended it after about 30 mins saying it was late and had to be up at 730 for the gym in the morning.

I thought that convo was one of those havent heard from ya in a long time, catch up convo...but today I left my facebook on while I was away from my comp and she messages me again like this..."FOGELL!!!!" but obviously my real name instead of "fogell". By the time I saw that she was offline.

So after this long story, my question is...what should my next move be?...IM her next time shes online? wait for her to message me? or doing something like "poke" her or leave a creative wall post?...any input would be greatly appreciated.

Leave plently of surprise and unexpectedness - women love surprises. She's used to guys chasing her. Give some time - wait and see if she IMs first.

What I have found works well on facebook is to give things a little time - see if she gets back to you. Remember she is used to guys chasing her. I generally give it a day or two and if I get no reply I will poke them. It is a simple yet effective unexpected surprise which comes of as very unneedy and prompts her to take action.

- Chris

wait a few days for her to say hello again, if she dnt say hello next time you and her are on lol

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I agree. She has already tried to initiate the convo 2x and told you to call her. Pretty big IOI. Keep playing hard to get and she may stop playing.

I would demonstrate some interest, maybe use the " you know we are just so similar. I doubt we will ever get along. See, we would always fight and I would always win... there is just no fun in that! lol"

while your on the lines of not always getting along just get her thoughts on hot make up sex lol

I dont know if I would say shes chasing me...I dont get that feeling with her...it feels like she just wants to talk...iunno im gonna have to see how this plays out, see if she messages me next time...if not i might try a poke or something (never poked someone before, see what happens haha)...however, I know in the past she told me I was cute though, so she might have always had some interest. But back in the day I had no game, so maybe with knowledge of the game, I might surprise myself and make something outta this. Not expecting anything though.

however, I know in the past she told me I was cute though, so she might have always had some interest. But back in the day I had no game, so maybe with knowledge of the game, I might surprise myself and make something outta this. Not expecting anything though.


man you need to work on your inner game it's cool in one way you don't have expectations
women like a confident man as in have a set of core values and beleifs.
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I probly do need to work on my inner game a little bit...dont get me wrong, I am confident in my looks...but I need to have some more confidence in my gaming abilities...

Anyways, I "poked" her this morning when she was off...then I went offline, hoping to get a poke back, and I was gonna try that routine that Whoopie posted to try n be playful...so I check back just a few moments ago, and she messaged on the chat thing saying whats up...but again, I was offline when she did that...this feels like a game of cat n mouse...I better figure it out before I fuck up.

Was probably a good thing you missed her. You can catch her later and your telegraphing less interest than her, especially when you ended the previous conversation. I personaly hate the use of poke's the word itself implies your needy for attention, more so than just doing a wall post or messaging. Easy enough to arrange a meet if you knew her from high school anyways, good to try and compensate for any previous weaknesses she may remember from high school. If you were a computer game nerd imply you left that to be more atletic, if you never spoke to girls make sure you drop some DHV spikes for pre-selection and such.
Always a great feeling to show someone you havent seen in a while how much youve improved and grown as a person.