Yo fellas.
So, technically I'm not really new to the game. But, I'm new to the forum, and I'm relatively new to online game. Need some advice.

So, this HB9 friends me on facebook like a long ass time ago. Turns out, she's a friend of a friend. We haven't talked for a long while though, so it might be stale. But, I poked her on facebook, and now I'm trying to figure out how I should open after she responds to my poke. Any idea how to approach this?

Dude openers matter very litttle in real life, they dont matter in facebook either. Say hi, say sup, say you saw this amazing girl and then saw her. Anything man, it DOESNT MATTER. All about natural game man

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I've learned the hard way that it is very easy to appear needy on facebook. Too much attention and you can blow it. Also you can create the perception that you do it as a substitute for real world interaction and make yourself seem weak and of lower value. Just be aware of the risks and downsides.

i dont know if you'll find this useful. just an idea
i read it from another forum post a long time ago

you: *poke*
she: *poke*
you: i appreciate the poke but youre taking this relationship too fast girl!

youll get a range of replies depends how work them. as mentioned above
1 natural
2 be very very careful not to seem desperate and too much like the other million desperate guys/lesbians/computernerds/rapists probably facebooking her too

hope that helped. cheers!

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game on

Hi!

New to forum, didn't even know the whole community exsisted until Thursday, but use a lot of similar methods discussed here. Actually, I'm quite curious about what you all get up to on here. I'd never though of myself as a PUA, just a chronic flirt but it's all very familiar. Anyway, Facebook is a quality source of HB's as it's not a "Dating Site" and by it's very nature, you always get a selection of pics of targets. It's almost like a mail order catalogue.

Just got back from my fourth consecutive weekend with a Facebook HB's in London - had three in two days last weekend, it's my WOC (haven't seen that on here but me and my wings call it Weapon Of Choice, website pub or club with plenty of HB's) at the moment.

I'd love to hear from others who sarge on it, as for me I can sarge 20 or 30 at the same time - and using the same game (copy / paste) too.

My Five Rules (just for myself - I'm no expert PUA but let me know what you think) which have lead to 100% full closers over the past month - 6/6.

1) Build up your friends and photo number... at least 200+ and make sure you've plenty of HBs on there too - my last one continuously referred to them over the past weekend.

2) Had plenty of success using quality long game. Most guys on there post two or three lines of text and the usual AFC "how are you" stuff. The last target I saw even told me the reason she replied to me was that she usually gets "Wow you're hot, let's chat"... (EG BELOW)

3) Post before 6pm. Under the guise of using "the net" at work and are way too busy to use it at home. posts 10pm+ are desperate, ANY weekend posts can be deemed AFC.

4) Resist the MSN invites for while, and NEVER ask for a live chat. Stay writing on your terms, at your times.

5) Don't ask them out. The last successes I had have always been on "trips to see an old mate from uni" (included in my game anecdotes) which happens to be out 10 miles away from where they live. 9 times out of 10 I get an invite for a beer.

MY... Field report?

My opener was to write a story to her as if she was an old friend from school and how she came up in conversation so I looked her up (easy for London as there's 8 million on that network). She replied and asked who the hell you I was and wondered why she doesn't remember me. I replied with kind of a neg - why are you impersonating my friend? She must have the same name as you...! Careful with negs though - without the sound of your voice you have to make sure the context is clear. Then, once we got exchanging messages I started to tell her anecdotes and make sure she writes at length back too. I have a selection of long stories in several parts and post them bit by bit, so it seems she's involved in a 'live' event, almost soap-opera like.

By the time you've had 20 or so messages to and fro, it's like getting the 7 hours Mystery talks about for free and from the comfort of your own home.

As I said before, this is just what I've been up to and how I use it and I find it works and gets me dates where the targets already are into me so it's easy to close. Saturday it took just 2 hours from meeting before we were in her flat......

Hope that helps - please do reply as I'd love to know how other PUA's use it.

Ridiculous.

I have always known that there exists a staggering potential in Facebook Sarging, but I have lacked the initiative and insight to develop a proactive method that avoids those common pitfalls. It seems like you have really done your homework and mastered your technique.

I have 1000+ friends and 800+ photos in the highly coveted Miami network. I make it a point to guarantee that every weekend I have hot photo-tags streaming in (to maintain virtual alpha status). I have a very active wall with lots of female support. However, all of this is currently going COMPLETELY UN-UTILIZED on my part.

I would love to work in partnership with you to develop a comprehensive Facebook Sarging Method. This method would include targeted use of the about me, mini-feed, "Wall Repping", honesty box, and would also include instructions on "opening", "building comfort", "closing" etc.

This has every indication to be the wave of the future in sarging. You've gotten me extremely excited.

I have not fully utilized the Facebook game either. It sounds good, but of course I've learned some basic techniques to avoid coming off too needy and over-using NEG's. We have to be careful, as there is no emotion or voice used to convey this and it could be taken the wrong way. In reference to the first post on this thread, I would have to say that though I used to 'poke' the occasional time, I don't think its an effective way to sarge given that it can come off a little creepy... I suppose the context changes when she pokes you first, but I personally would stay away from poking and instead initiate conversation via private message, and don't write on her wall unless you have really GOOD rapport.

Just my thoughts.