ok been practacing/studyin game for about 8months now and was at a stage where opening girls was second nature, could ususally number close but did fail a few times... now im back in the newbie section because im turning back into a complete afc when im actually with some1... i still tease adn stuff but find myself constantly being told what o do by her, i kep sayin ur not gettin ur way all the time but somehow i still end up doin what she tells me. ido like this girl but dnt like what beautiful girls can do to a bloke..

-peace-

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Black tattoos up and down his arm, aint nothin more dangerous than aboy woth charm - christina aguilera

Hehe..well start easy mate this somehow sounds like oneitis..you laid her yet? Well reason I am asking could be that your pussy wipped hahaha just relax mate its a period sooner or later (prefer sooner myself) you break the habbit and take controll, let her think she's in charge seems she likes it.

B

Man, I have had the exact same problem. So I found a person that would help me break this.

She is a HB10 bartender that has every Tom, Dick, and Harry falling all over themselves to get her attention. Even worse, she is the most spoiled person from her parents that I have ever met. It is actually kind of disgusting.

Normally, as soon as I found this out, I would have turned away and never come back, but I thought she would help me break this post-afc attitude.

How did it start! In some simple conversation, she told me that she was afraid of deep water because of the sea life. The next time I saw her at the bar, I ordered a water. I told her I did not want her to get scared that she would fall in so I changed my order to a coke.... Should have seen the look on her face.

A few super negs (Something I would normally be embarrased to tell anyone else) but she needed it.

One time I grab her stomach and told her she needed to work on it (she doesn't). The next day I texted her:

Me: Where are you
Her: X.hat (no clue what this was)
Me: Is that a strip club? Did you get a second job?
Her: On my couch FUCK OFF
Me: I really didnt think so, Not with that pouch. Maybe you should be on the treadmill instead of the couch.

5 mins later: She called me and said in a very somber voice 'what are you doing you piece of shit'. I tell her and she says 'Im on my way'.

It has been going back and forth like this for three weeks now. We have gone out four times, no sex yet because she hasn't earned it (I tell her this all the time) She was drunk one night and asked me to sleep with her. I just told her she would be a shity lay like that and I have more pride in myself.

Today I called her and told her that I was going shopping after work...
Her first question 'what are you going to get me'. I told her I was going to go to her favorite store and get the best thing they had. She asks where this is at and I say 'The swift kick in the ass store, if they are on special, I will get you two'.

The point being of this story is, the second I let down my guard and be 'afc' she pounces.... Hard.

I have made mistakes with her and notice it right away. Including text messages from her that say 'you better get here or dont bother calling me again'. This was the day after I followed her to where she wanted to go.

So, use this girl as a training ground. She may like you and not want to leave but she will try to break you. Learn from it and completly destroy any remements of the old AFC inside you.

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Recommended reading list.

Double Your Dating by DD
(This will work on your inner game)

http://www.freewebs.com/xfman/
(This will work on your outer game)

As I see it mate your misstakes you neg her too severly starts to seem like abusive almost, the water thing was just mean bleh she confided in you dont use that shit, but dont do her bidding either heh..the only reason she told you the water thing was so you'd ask owww how come, you did'nt hehe and made her play your rules so some credit for you...peace out

B

Context is everything.

I had made dinner for a co-worker of hers, (lesbian friend of mine) and she was asking when i was going to make her dinner. Thats how we got into the conversation of water. At the time, she was actually expecting me to say 'whenever you want'. I told her she didn't deserve it and had to make me dinner first. She told me she could order pizza.

I busted her on the water thing right after see told me the first time. It was a continuation of that and she did laugh after switching the water. (Of course it was said with a smirk)

Further info, we were supposed to go out tonight and I told her I would call her when I got off of work.

I call, she says 'this is the worst day, I am over this, bye' and then hung up on me. I didn't get a word in.


So I text her a couple of hours later,

Are you done being melodramatic?

She just called, Im picking her up in a few minutes.

Cat and mouse. She is a tough chic but I will eventually break her.

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Recommended reading list.

Double Your Dating by DD
(This will work on your inner game)

http://www.freewebs.com/xfman/
(This will work on your outer game)

haha cheers guys yea i slept wi her,must say best body i seen ever.....as for onetius, i got into the game too find somebody i do like an would be happy gettin in a relationship with, this was all jus to improve my chances... so after being single 24 months and findin someone i do like im thinkin that oneitus could be a good thing in moderation... only moderation as i work in a bar/club i get hit on alot, most nites and see alot of potential sarges, jus need to cut back on a few for the time bieng...
thanks for ur input dudes..
-peace-

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Black tattoos up and down his arm, aint nothin more dangerous than aboy woth charm - christina aguilera