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3-DON'T NOD!! I know it can be a hard habit to break but work on it...she will break contact if you nod 90% of the time
hmm i always do a small nod when she passes me and it helps (she says hi). but i guess it's a difference in culture. for instance if you have a bit of ec in japan you are already really rude.


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Haha I do this all the time when walking around campus. I'd def recommend this EC game to anyone who feels that people look at them judgmentally, because if you keep eye contact with them and THEY break away, you feel so much cooler. Keeping EC with girls AND guys while walking through public places definitely gives me a sense of being alpha. While EC with girls is good, EC with guys as well really ups the confidence.


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Eye Contact signifies strength, when I talk to people I make sure I make eye contact 100%. When you look away you either project to them that you are either inferior or aren't interested looking for some else to talk to.


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2 Questions:

1) When talking to men and maintaining eye contact, AMOG or otherwise, is it a competition to see who looks away first?

2) What is the commonly accepted thing to do after your target (AMOG/HB) looks away/down? Keep looking at their eyes/eye lids vs. look away as well.

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Hey guyz, I`v just talk with one friend (girl) about the EC.
It`s VITAL not to fail with the EC. Girls loose interest for you, when you fail to keep the EC.
I`m making it like a game. Make a competition with a friend or something.
If the girl is not leting her down- smile, or say hi, then you wil have big chance to win !

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whats the difference between EC and staring with a stranger who u want to meet?


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Your not just staring like a robot, EC means not only eyes. You have to smile, say hi or something like that. Staring involves only eyes.

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Your not just staring like a robot, EC means not only eyes. You have to smile, say hi or something like that. Staring involves only eyes.
thanks,
I'm glad I'm using EC correctly :D


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I keep hearing different things:

Should I not smile until she does, or should I initiate the smile with/EC? There seems to be a large dispute over this.


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I think what everyone is trying to say is this: If you are in a social environment and you see a woman from across the bar or gym or mall or whatever, look her in the eyes. She'll probably be looking into your eyes. Look into her eyes until she looks away first. Do not look away first. She'll be attracted to a man who isn't intimitad by her eye contact.

After that, don't look in her direction again until you are ready to approach. If you continue to look towards her and you don't have the balls to approach, you are in the creep zone. Either avoid all eye contact and looking in her direction OR approach her.

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i do this alot. but i sometimes get the response "what are you staring at?" (probably not making myself alpha enough). what would be a good C&F response to this?


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i have found eye contact to be one of the huge assets to have and to not do it is pretty dumb.


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Hi guys, great forum

Cut a long story short, until recently I was convinced I was the worlds biggest AFC. I still am an AFC but am working on it :wink:

Anyway, one of the things I'm trying to improve on is eye contact, usually while walking around the main shopping area in my city. I've noticed a few things:

Don't go looking for eye contact as that can create anxiety and looks needy. Just let it happen, if you catch someone's gaze, I feel its ok to smile first (not immediately though!). Don't be put off if they don't smile and look away, as I feel that a hell of alot of people are scared of making eye contact (like I used to be and still am to a lesser exent).


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Eye contact is so underestimated. It can seal the deal.

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Simply put...EC and smiling genuinely (i.e you are feeling great and alpha inside) shows confidence and that you do not care what the world throws at you.. who cares if someone smiles back at you or not it does not show you are being needy it simply implies that they are either too uncomfortable/scared/shy (as if someone gives a fuck). So rock it dude...smile your way into her pants lol! :wink:

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