I frequent a local bar every so often and a particular group of girls quite regularly goes there, so i can always count on running into them. I know one of the girls in the group well, due to having a few dates with her years ago but ended it with her. I figure that she could become quite a useful pivot to the more attractive girls in the group in this situation but, i also think that she may end up CB me if she is still interested / hung up on me:roll:. Any suggestions on how to have her be a pivot, or how to close her down when working on her friend(s)?

Haha fuck mate I bet your going to be CBed by her anyway you dumped her..come on think about it major CB incoming but what you could do is make it more secret once you get in the group who ever you go for you tell her that her friend might get jealous and add some excitment to the whole ordeal!

My 2 crowns

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Oh i figure its gonna be a CB no matter what here, im just wondering if anyone here has a CB disabler for a situation like mine. But i will keep that tip in mind if i see them out again, and ill let ya know if it works well or crashes and burns.

Thanks mate, but secracy is a turn on for most chicks

I should also mention here that i know its a def. oneitis feeling i got, so im gonna spend some time with other girls and come back to this group

I made a very long post on a swedish PUA community about my thoughts on oneitis..its quite simple its all in your head, your creating what you think is oneitis, get passed that...ever tried Self Hypnosis..that shit rocks..but you need to take it for real like everything else, got a link guide for a site bout that...try it!

http://www.wikihow.com/Perform-Self-Hypnosis


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What if you got a wing sarging on her while you go after your target? She'll appreciate the attention and forget about you for the time being. Hell, if it works out he'll get her and you'll get her friend, it's a total win-win. Definitely don't blow her off, though, or you will be asking for a CB.