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The much more uncommon type are the ones that are truly romantically in love. These are the ones that are still very much attracted to one another--the ones where they tease each other, they are still social and have other friends, and they do all the important things to flip the attraction switches. The true beauty of their marriage is that their game is so well calibrated to each other, they are in a constant interplay that each of them knows incredibly well. The competition becomes a sort of dance--have you ever seen two amazingly talented boxers, chess players, hell even computer gamers that are familiar with each other's games? There is a remarkable beauty in their exchange.

This last relationship is the only one that I ever want to lead.
This is what I saw with my aunt and uncle and was what I thought about when I began reading The Game and how it's potential was for so much more than just pickup up random girls at the bar, but for sustaining an amazing connection for your whole lives together, however long it may be. Even if you seperate, it is generally on good terms, because you weren't bitter towards each other, there was just some reason to part ways.

It is exactly how you talk about watching too amazing competitors interact, like an intricate dance. It is joyess to watch and the most thrilling thing in all the world to engage in.

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Oh what a great topic ;) finally something good!


"To win the game you have to leave it"

Refers to what i believe is two things.

You can't be mixed In that life style all the time, you have to broaden your understanding from a outside source. For instance you can watch it once a week or read about it once a week, sarge 2 - 3 times a week! but then have time for yourself, do something totally different, forget about it, immerse yourself in something else.

For me its music, films, talking to friends, hanging out doing stupid shit, and then you return with so much understanding and knowledge for your game its great.

The second thing i think it means, its something to do with women in general, your girl won't want to you be in this. She will think that deep down your not letting your true self out and the longer your in it, the more you’ll be pushing her away. It's hard to explain, but its something you have to experience first hand to sortove get whatsup. Sure all the stuff will stay with you, and you could work on being a better man all that. But the game itself you will have to eject from, and work more on yourself, hence really becoming a so called "natural".

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The second thing i think it means, its something to do with women in general, your girl won't want to you be in this. She will think that deep down your not letting your true self out and the longer your in it, the more you’ll be pushing her away. It's hard to explain, but its something you have to experience first hand to sortove get whatsup. Sure all the stuff will stay with you, and you could work on being a better man all that. But the game itself you will have to eject from, and work more on yourself, hence really becoming a so called "natural".
We have mutual understanding :)

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The second thing i think it means, its something to do with women in general, your girl won't want to you be in this. She will think that deep down your not letting your true self out and the longer your in it, the more you’ll be pushing her away. It's hard to explain, but its something you have to experience first hand to sortove get whatsup. Sure all the stuff will stay with you, and you could work on being a better man all that. But the game itself you will have to eject from, and work more on yourself, hence really becoming a so called "natural".
My girl has no problem with me being a PUA, or teaching it. I've let her know that I enrich people's lives and make men better for it, by helping them express who they TRULY are, instead of having them assume another identity merely to pick up women. She finds it intriguing and realises that it is a part of who I am. If she tries to get me to stop, then that's gonna be a fucked up issue, cause I've had to accept the fact that she does nude art and I'm pretty sure that's a lot harder to accept.

It's all about how you present it remember.

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My girl has no problem with me being a PUA, or teaching it. I've let her know that I enrich people's lives and make men better for it, by helping them express who they TRULY are, instead of having them assume another identity merely to pick up women. She finds it intriguing and realises that it is a part of who I am. If she tries to get me to stop, then that's gonna be a fucked up issue, cause I've had to accept the fact that she does nude art and I'm pretty sure that's a lot harder to accept.

It's all about how you present it remember.

Some women are willing to listen, but some arnt! I have a few girls who respect me for being a PUA, having the social skills, so on. Some women, equally as beautiful or more, just don't want to even hear about it! They hate it, and think its some cheesy thing. That’s why these days I never directly tell women I have anything to do with the game! i mention mens self improvement as something I'm passionate about, but that’s it. I lost a wonderful person hb9+ simply because of all this drama! We are just friends now, and I’m trying to get rid of her! Its tough, because she’s one of the rare unique women you meet out there whos balanced looks with something else! So I don’t want to put anyone reading this in the same position, keep the game to yourself, only you know your strengths and weaknesses, and don’t let anyone else know. This thing is for you, and for your life!

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