I always try not to stare when an HB passes me, is driving next to me, I spot her far way, or is just not an apprpriate time and/or place to approach. . But I read somewhere that you should not hide your desires because by checking out a hottie that let's her know you have the confidence to let her know that you are interested.
I was under the belief HB's are use to having guys always look at them, I wanted to be different. Women have told people my friends that I am conceited because I do not acknowledge them.
Do you think I should change what I'm doing?

NO! NO! NO! NO! NO!

It is natural for an a man to check out an attractive woman but you need to understand that most of them men who check her out are ogling her. If a woman is good looking she excepts men to check her out but she wants it done in a way that is respectful of her - think of how James Bond confidently checks out a woman. Make solid eye contact and be able to hold it with her. Looking at a woman shows you are not intimidated by her, you are not worried about outcomes and that you are comfortable with your sexuality - doing the opposite gives the opposite effect.

Read this: http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/se ... =519164468

Women like to be approached and they like to be talked to. We develop a misconception because we hear about them shutting down guys so much. The reason for this is because these guys will come up to her with nothing to say and make it obvious that they want a woman's body.

It's a normal belief; back in high school I was afraid to ask a hot girl what the math homework was because I would think she would get offended and believe i was hitting on her so I know to an enormous extend what your feeling.

- Chris

It's not wrong to look, but it is what you convey with the look that impacts how you will be percieved. If you are just gaping like a landed fish, you evidently are not used to women of beauty in your life. That is bad. If you do a lot of looking, but never open your mouth and avoid contact--also bad. There is nothing creepier than a guy who hangs around a girl just looking at her all the time.

On the other hand, if you look at her like a fine piece of art--that is, appraisingly with an eye that appreciates quality, there is nothing wrong with that and it is analogous to flirtation--you are flattering her with your looks. If you follow that up with communication, you will be judged well.

If you have trouble with this, just use the 3 second rule, and open the girl immediately--that way you don't have to worry about being caught staring.

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