what do i do when a set of girls show no interest in talking to anyone other than each other? least of all me. but they are absolutely knock-outs! they aren't interested in the guy that is the life of the party (social status) nor the guy that has other girls around them (pre-selection). usually it's because they know they are hotter than the other girls interested in you and usually they are right. are they just waiting for guys to hit on them so they can turn them down because they are insecure and want to build up their own egos?? but there must be a way to get their attention and their phone #'s?

ideas? i'd like to hear some stories about girls that were talking to each other, looking amazing, disinterested in anyone else in the place, but you still managed to open them up and get them interested before they took off running.

-harlow

I did this last week to a set of HB9s that were doing exactly what your saying..

The girls were standing over in the corner and i just walked straight up and interupted them

Me:Is this a public house or a private party?
HB9:Excuse me?
Me:Well youve all been sitting here with each other all night and you havent spoken a word to anyone?
HB9:Thats because we dont want to
Me:Oh right well whats the point in going to the pub if your not going to socialize youd be better off going to a liquor store buying some alcohol and sitting at home and putting some music on.That is why people go to the bar to be social.
HB9:I guess
Me::Right lets be social, whats your name

Then i just negged DHV'd blah blah blah picked my target and k-closed!!

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go to them and talk like bad boy, neg them, dont make excuses on interrupting them.if they didnt want anyone to talk to them, they wouldnt be there.

MR. A thats nice! ill remember that one! I agree with what he said.

Most HB9+ stand around talking to each other because most guys are to afraid to approach. Those girls dont want to have to do any work and initiate conversation with anyone. They stand around and get validation from those looking at them. There ego gets boosted and they feel on top of the world.

These girls are the ones you go in and throw them off balance by not saying something about how they look or wanting to buy them a drink.

~ Mystic

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agreed on both counts. these girls are really only looking for validation and they are armed and ready to reject anyone that comes at them with the standard comments about how good they look or anything predictable. agreed that you have to violate their expectations and deliver a soft blow to their ego without being a total jerk so they will want to redeem themselves in your eyes.

i like the "you're at a bar, you're supposed to be social" approach. i'll try that. thanks. any other ideas out there for opening 9+'s...
-harlow

I'm an average looking guy, but I noticed that when I totally blow off a nine or higher, and just dont acknowledge their existence they become interested. They start looking my way and what not, approaching me.

ye man its called disqualifying yourself its an incredible technique!

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