Hey guys, new to the site, but have an issue you guys might be able to give some pointers on...


Ok, so I am 19 years old right now. When I was 17, I had a girlfriend who was 15. We dated for probably about 6 or 7 months. It started to seem like I didn't like her as much as I thought, and my best friend at the time said he noticed we didnt click the best. So I broke up with her.

About a week later, I find out my best friend was dating her, the one who had told me he didnt think we were good together. So me and my best friend kind of stopped being friends over the whole thing, and he ended up getting her pregnant!

She lost her virginity to him, even though she said numerous times she had wanted to lose it to me, and was destroyed when I broke up with her.

So after her and him had a baby girl (which is almost a year old as of now), they kept dating. She started talking to me again, and brought up how she still never got the chance to be with me sexually and she would do anything for it. I'm not friends with her boyfriend anymore, and he kind of pulled a shady one on me by telling me to break up with her then dating her, so I banged her 3 or 4 times. She's a lot more mature now, which is also one of the reasons I broke up with her in the past. She's changed for the better, and I feel like I like her again.


So, we've been talking a lot lately, and she is still obsessed with me. She claims if I ever wanted a relationship, she wouldnt hesitate to be my girlfriend. Now, she is SMOKING, AND has a bomb ass personality, but also a baby girl which is born by my ex best friend.....some Jerry Springer type shit, you get it.

So I do not know what to do. What would you guys do?

Oh and P.S., I am the only person she would cheat on her boyfriend with, and she's done it a few times. Until I tell her to stop, or ruin it by telling her BF, she wont stop. But more ethical to actually be with her if this stuff is happening...lol

I think if you quited her because you and her didnt fit together in the past, it will be the same situation after a while.
Now you maybe have some feelings for her because you´ve had sex with her

If I were you I would go on with the sex relationsship and see if the feelings are still there after 2-3 months

I agree with MisterMeth, give it a little time, you don't have to make this decision right now, by the sound of things you can take as much time as you want. Good Luck

I don't date girls with kids by rule I don't like getting attached to the kids it ends up wearing on them ya know new guy every week kind of thing. As far as the cheating thing sounds like she's done it before and she'll do it again... I wouldn't want to be that sucker.

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Trust me , you are not that "special" to her. Good to think you are though. It doesnt sound like you want to be a PUA,, but in a relationship with this girl. The last thing you want to do is get her prgenant! themn you could be on a T.V show or something, Man up and be with this gal for good or let her go, she has enough problems than dealing with a young guy that doesnt know what he wants. Sorry to be harsh. Leave her better than you found her, thats one rule here on this forum.

I truly am a pick up artist. This is my number one influence:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0dJu1Jj7VTw

here's the point..

You "become" an ALPHA by following what you've learned...

Girls really, really enjoy being around you because of above...

*That's the frickin' end! It's one big loop!*

anything else that you're adding is YOUR insecurity and needs and has nothing to do with The Game. That's cool, we all have them, but I think we should be clear about what's Game and what's you.

You think she's really cool now... you're rationalizing your AFC desire for her to save you/choose you. Nobody cares if you date this girl...just don't pass it off as Game.

You think she's changed...girls are all the same, forever. Like us, they don't change. It was only your perception that she changed because she blew you out. She IS the same, silly! hahahahah

You think you're the only person she would cheat with! hahahahahaha this one made me laugh pretty good. You're projecting. You want her to have this quality (that she doesn't have) and so you 'give' it to her. Girls were made to fu*k (so were we) and they are going to do it if at all possible. It's cute that you want her to be extra special! hahahahah Maybe you could name a star after her or propose to her at a baseball game! hahahahahahahaha

anyway...