Hi everyone im new to this so here is my situation i know this hb9 and have known her for a while. we get a long really well I go up to her house alot for drinks an a laugh but never anything else we said right at the start we were just friends , though alot has changed from then ,i.e the frequency of us meeting. an i used too text her way too much but ive calmed that a bit im getting really into her . tho ive been way to nice too her in the past
She is on her sisters hen night tonight , an i was helping her choose a dress etc last night for it .

So my question for you guys is im wanting to text her with something c/f to show a bit of cheeky banter when she is out with everyone but dont want too seem needy or too wussy any ideas or advice woould be great guys thanks

popcorn

to be honest with you by the sounds of things it seems you are in her LJBF groupin doin things she would do with her best pals like pickin out a dress for her to wear, you really need to stop that like NOW this second otherwise you won't get anywhere
probably to late for txt ideas as the night has now gone, but you need to cool on the amount you contact her i think

dunno what anyone else thinks of this but you need a lot more than what to text her

I know your right about what your saying with the LJBF group but it just kind of went that way , I know i have been way too wussy , and honestly want to change her perception of me as im not like this with all the other woman i know or my partner for that matter . I seem too get along with her two young children too , Have been to her mums for tea and been asked plenty of times if i want to stay but in a friendly on the sofa type way .

Though when we have had a lot too drink the flirting and kino goes up big time an seems kind of natural but not so much when we are sobber

Any help guys dirrection on how to get on the right track again i really like this Hb

Hey, How we all doing?

This is a joke right? Seriously what makes this girl so special that you give her every aspect of your time and your life. I would suggest that you look at this as a lesson learned and keep her as a friend.

A woman does not want a man to drop everything for her as this means he has nothing else going on in his life. The less time you have for her the more she desires you. There is no reason for you to be so indulged in this girl you must realize that if you continue along this path you will not succeed.

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Unfortunatly this is not a joke although the way ive played it may as well have been . It all started and still is in away somthing im interested in doing - i.e seeing her doing things with her when i dont actually have nothing better to do , when im buisy i dont really think about her all that much ..

thought she is really really hot which i never really noticed when i first met her months ago , So do you all think its best too keep this one as a friend and stop thinking about anything else cheers for you valid inputs guys

well don't really wanna give false hope. usually once you've entered best mate catergory its usually gonna stay that way but then it can be argued if really want this girl then is she worth the fight? but it may risk losing your friendship which in this case you seem to enjoy

if you enjoy your time around her then leave it be cuz that won't change but it is known that can a boy and girl really bed friends? wish i had a solution for you as everybody at some point knows how this feels

i guess you should try acting more like a boyfriend than a friend and see what sort of reaction/response you get to that?? be flirty, spontaneous and catch her out a but with a more confident, comfortable attitude and maybe you might build up attraction....

thanks for the reply . Yeah i kind of like where it is but only because im bored with other things that are going on in my life just now ! although her ex has came on the schene an she seems more interested in him always willing to say how high when he says jump . but at the same time she tells me how much she doesnt like him etc ,,,,

im pretty confused i know i ve played it way wrong . but still like this chic

This means that she still does like him... If she felt nothing for him then she would have no opinion and not even talk about him

Never believe what a woman says