ah wassabe? whats happening everyone? my names obsidian and i guess im new to the game. i read the book and some of the online articals on what u guys do and i think its pretty cool. i still have a few barriers to break through before i can say im on the level that the average lucky joe is on when it comes to women so let me know if you have any advice or would like to start a pet project and prove how much of a mpua u really r. peace.

Welcome to the community man! I've been around the block for over a decade and have spent a lot of time working with newbies like yourself so whatever you want to learn feel free to ask!

To answer your topic question - 100% yes a natural who understands the universal attraction triggers of a woman's mind can get any woman he desires.

- Chris

alright here is the problem. i guess i was the average frustrated chump back in high school just like most of my fellow teenagers. doing the same shit everyone use to do and not getting no where. so when college rolled around and i got a little older something strange kinda happened. all of a sudden i started to get the feeling that woman or girls or whatever started to show interest in me. at first i was like alright, thanks god, thats what im talking about but then sex and casual encounters happened here and there but the biggest problem was this, i had no fucking control over when or where or from who i got it from. that in itself pissed me the fuck off. so this coupled with the fact that most of the woman i messed with were freaking nutty or bonkers kinda killed my lybido in a way,lol. so like when i hang out with my friends and they go yo son that chick was checking you out shit im like whatever and they look back at me in amazement like who the fuck are u and what have you done to my friend. kinda funny but at the same time this behavier kinda like inpairs how i interact with woman. like half the time i only want to deal with a chick if its just for business and at the most just a friend, and thats even if i know she wants to bang me or not. jeez i feel like one of those guys that plays world of warcraft or card games and has completly given up on the opposite sex,lol. well hit me back and let me know what u think.

I hear ya man, I was an AFC for my first two years of high school so I know what it's like. We learn through observing those around us and unfortunatley for us most of the male population is AFCs so most of us don't get a good role model - thanks to the internet however we can easily find some.

I can remember when I started attracting girls interest when I was about 16 and they all finally started moving in on me. The problem was that after a couple of years I found myself bored. I could have any HB10 I wanted because I had unprecidented preselection and social proof and began acting the same way around 1s that I would around 10s and I even questioned whether or not I might be gay. Nothing was a challenge anymore - I could have any woman I wanted and all the women I didn't want (they were hot I was just bored) were trying to hook up with me - I couldn't help it either because it was now natural for me to do things like hold alpha eye contact until a woman looks away so I was naturally making all the right moves. Eventually I found even sex routine and felt like that wasn't enough.

Is it possible in your case that your past experiences with women such as the lack of control, the nutcase women and your lack of total satisfaction with your love and sex life left you with an emotional void and your simply worn out and perhaps a part of you doesn't want to bother trying with more women because you simply don't want to wind up with another nutcase and would rather avoid the risk of that?

- Chris

Some very open and honest comments there guys.
I think the difficulty is trying to un-learn 15+ years of behaviour from an AFC peer group.

Mint

I totally agree with you Mint!

I just started here a couple of weeks ago and I can't believe how much I've been re-learning. My Anthropology training has definitely been handy in more than one situation, but stomaching a lot of the Anthro books can be a bit burdensome. The texts recommended on this site along with the infield tips and support are so far nothing but amazing here

Like the afc behavior as u would put it wasn't the problem, or maybe it was but I got over it guess. I'm mean I was young, we all were young at one time or another and I just chopped it up to not looking cool or something. But when college came things changed abit. I got sex alright but not the bitches I chose, that I selected. I always got second stringers and slobby seconds,lol. I changed a bit to, got a job, started dressing better stuff like that but it seem that even on my worst days a random chick I would find out would be into me. My last girlfreind(which was like almost 4 years ago) fuck me over real bad. Everything was grits and gravy until we broke up over some stupid shit. She bad mouth me to random people I don't know, when we ran into each other she took little pock shots at me infront of people, like what the fuck. So shit cooled over then we started to talk again. So one day I called her to say thanks for a faver she did for me and like she fucking explodes at me, tells me to not call her again loose her number stuff like that. so a year goes by an on new years my cousin tells me some woman has been calling his crib asking for me sounding real desperate with a caribean accent. So he gives me the number and I call only to finld out its this bitch trying to get me to talk to her. Mind u this is one story I have others and now every other bitch I try talking to that I like for whatever reason is just a top of the line bitch. Oh I forgot to mention she gave me a std. Beautiful world right, beautiful world.