I told you guys that I was going to the other state to try to see if I can make a plan with my girlfriends cousin. ayway the day I left I messaged her mother and said that I like her daughter ( not knowing anything about her daughter by the way) what I fuck up she told me that her daughter was in involved in a relationship and that she was very corncerned and that why am I doing this when I am her niece's boyfriend. I said that it was the truth anyway fuck shit yesterday she phoned my girlfriends sister and other family member os my girlfriend got notified by my girlfriends sister and then it blew out of proportion apprently she was sitting and crying in a room, later her sister phoned me and gave me a mouthful I phoned her and explained that the situation but she's very angry anway I think that there is a solution and am going to find it with you guys help.

Mate, I told ya not to do it and why would you not do your research first and find out if she had a boyfriend!?

and then you left a message with her mum? At least if you talked to the cousin, you could say dont tell but the mum was bound to grass you up.

to be honest mate, I cant see how you can get round it unless you tell your girlfriend it was some kind of joke. You must not have any really feelings for her or you wouldn't of chased after her cousin so I suggest you just leave it and move on.

Go out sarging and find some girls that you like

I think you learned a valuable lesson, but I think it will cost you. Can't really see much of a way to recover from that.

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didnt really understand much but from what i took in it doesnt look good!!

yea you messed up...apologize and move on quickly

The solution is to be a man with some fucking balls and take responsibility for your actions. Accept responsibility for the consequences you brought onto yourself.

If you are always trying to dig yourself out of your own holes by weaseling your way out of the consequences you created under the guise of "finding a solution," that says something about your character.

What's the matter? Can't take a few punches?

and 3 mentioned to me that the want to fuck me and have set up dates to do so but I still feel bad about my girlfriend because at the moment she lost her job and her mum is terminally sick and will die at any moment so she's very fragile. Also my auntie told me that she will phone the other girls parents and apologise for my behalf because they don't want to tal to me she also is going to tell them that they shoud make a plan for the two of us but I'm not banking on anything at the moment even these new girls I met I don't trust them but i will just have to wait and see what happens and I will keep you guys posted and thanks for all the adive you guys are the best and I hope that I can tell you more and we all can help eachother anyway cheers for today.

is this a real story?

I'm with newb, this is just such a heinous fuckup that it doesn't seem real. The only feasible recovery I can see is total disengagement. Maybe if you pray really really hard to your favorite god one of them will come back, but probably not.

Wow now you are getting your aunt to fix your problems?

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Not a PUA just a girl offering my opinions/advice

I hate being rude, but I think it's necessary in this case. You come up here, ask for advice, and clearly ignore the advice and do your own thing. You fuck it up and you come back up here for more advice. My advice is you go fuck yourself. Seriously.

Texting her mom? Never underestimate the stupidity of a individual. I think this guy has all taught us this lesson.

You aren't here to better yourself as a human being or as a pick up artist. You're up here because you want somebody to guide you through life with simple answers to your fucked up situations. Trying watching the Dr. Phil show bud.

I really leaned a lesson and it won't happen again you guys are really great and give good advice. I am gonna try to go sarging to forget about this shit situation anyway I have made a decision to leave my girlfriend because what's the point in trying to be a PUA if I'm gonna let pther people dictate thjings for me fuck all of them I will go and get better women and more women. I have a new found sense and know what I gotta do. By the way my brother has a ONE ITIS by he does't fucking listen to me. I want to gosarging with him today so that he can listen and Neil Strauss is right about what he says about ONE ITIS guys.

fuck man you are so right thanks for showing me the light mate. I owe you one.