i must have solo'ed it 20 times( went to the malls 20 times) and i can't build a nerve to talk to 1 on 1, i can open a set if i build my courage up cause sets are easier i think, but singles i don't open. when i solo it i start talking bad to myself like " she's to hot i gotta start low', i think i'm avoiding, should i keep doing it alone or should i try a different approach like night game, cuase even though i went to the malls lots a open 2 sets (sometimes even none) how long did u guys do it? or is it easier with a friend? wonder how long mystery did this before he could open sets easy, and its not like a slack off, i miss work to go sargeing sometimes. oh and i just moved in by myself in the city so i don't got no friends, my only friend is my weights.

Well you see this feeling you have now. Its a bad one. Only way to alleviate it is to do what you arent doing. Talk to people. You don have to have some outrageous routine. You said you just moved into a new city.

Hi, i just moved into town, looking to meet some friendly faces, you seem like one of them.

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what ice said bang ala ping

just be confident and you shouldn't give a shit what they think, if they don't like you so what? move to the next...

Exactly, thanks for touching up on that because I forgot to. Radiate that confidence and let her know you have it. Talk loud, but not yelling and have good posture, keep eye contact, and you should be golden.

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I'd rather go out swinging than strike out looking.
A lifestyle is a terrible thing to waste.
What I say when I see her is what I'll say.