I am actually a woman. I am 100% lesbian.

I know this is obviously a male community but it's not like women are going to help me learn how to pick them up...so i am posting here. I'm not a stereotype, so I don't have many lesbian friends. The friends I do have, I fear, would judge me for wanting to learn these skills...

Last year, I had a female friend from college tell me about "The Game" jokingly and in reference to her male friends who used its techniques to pick up girls at local bars. The funniest thing, she said, is that the techniques seemed to work. I would never admit this to her, but of course I went out and bought the book as soon as I got the chance. Other friends have told me that I have a very masculine mind, and therefore, terrible communication skills with women. I am afraid of them and deeply attracted to them at the same time.

I know you think perhaps it should be easy for me since I am a woman, but it's not. It's harder in some respects because I am gay and have no idea if someone I meet in 99% of locations would even be interested. Today, my voice cracked when I spoke to a girl working in a bookstore to ask her a question.

I need to be able to learn to talk to women with more confidence--just reading "The Game" was inspiring and worked like a charm the one time I tried it with a male friend...but I need more help (and it would have to be with men who are not going to hit on me as I am not interested in any man, ever). I am curious to see what Mr. Strauss would say about someone in my situation...or lesbians in general. I hope that at least one person in this group would be understanding of my situation and my fellow humanity...

A lot of the pick-up material out there will be of little use to you. Most of it has to do with outer-game, canned material, and alpha-male qualities. I do recommend however looking into inner-game stuff and seduction in general. Greene's book The Art of Seduction can be found easily at a local bookstore or at Amazon. Ive had a few bi/lesbian friends, so can at least somewhat relate to where you're coming from. From my experience though it's not the manly chick that lesbians are are attracted to but rather the dainty girly ones. So again, i'm not sure how helpful the male seduction community will be to you

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Delecto: -Latin verb
to attract, charm, delight/take delight in.

Oh, I forgot to mention NLP. Pick up a book on general Neuro Linguistic Programming as well as Ross Jeffries' famous stuff on how it applies to seduction. Hope this helps.

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Delecto: -Latin verb
to attract, charm, delight/take delight in.