No matter what it seems like I always screw up and when I know a girl is attracted to me and we are isolated i screw it up and it turns into a heart to heart talk


need general advice.. 4 out of 5 times this happens

Ok ur going to need to elaborate for me...

If you end up in a room with a girl look for signs of IOI's ie touching hair tilting head, neck touching blah blah blah. Take her hands squeeze them see if she squeezes back!!

I like doing the C!!

You start by gently pushing her hair out of her face and make a C with your fingers around her face all along her cheeks and under her neck and then just go for it, shes not going to pull away if u do that shit, or even say Im trying so hard not to kiss you right now.. then ull no by ur answr!!

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Depends on what you mean exactly man. Sometimes having a talk like that is what is needed to connect and let her know that you're in to her for more than just casual sex.

If your problem is just being able to kiss them and the conversation turns toward an AFC mood, then that is a different thing, as kissing shouldn't be prevented because of LMR. The way I go about it, is to just get my face real close to theirs (like an inch between our foreheads/noses) and then look into their eyes, at their lips, into their eyes, at their lips, then you just kiss them. The "C gesture" works, but self conscious girls will often pull back as soon as you push their hair from what I've found.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

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Ok.

Well basically I am refering to a night a few weeks back. I was back to a place with this HB 8 and she started talking about deep stufff in her life. I started grabbing candles and lighting them because they were everywhere. at the time i thought that might have been smooth maybe not??

anyway we were sitting in two different chairs.. she did not come to sit next to me she sat in the adjecent chair and started playing music on her ipod talking about her life. I was sitting on the couch with plenty of extra room. she was in a little one seater... so i couldnt come sit next to her

Before we got to her place she was smiling and asking me to come back to her place with her using the finger come here motion. I totally thought i was in for sure. But when we got back to her place her mood had changed. and when i say got back to her place i mean 15 feet down the hall. I don't think i could have done anything to change her mind when we walked those 15 feet.

she went from a hott blonde.. to a huge hippie! i must admit. although i was still attracted I wasnt AS attracted to her once we got back to her place. she seemed very very drunk by the time we got back. I wasnt that drunk

anyway.. i ended up sleeping on the couch alone

sounds like you gotta work on building attraction man, without attraction your just going to be left in the LJBF zone and you dont want that...check out the vid section look at some vids and watch how they do it, looking deep into their eyes is great for building sexual tension and attraction...

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Use kino liberally, and make sure to throw some things her way every now and then to keep things in the correct context. Get her comfortable with touching, and don't forget to ALWAYS get her consent before any intimate contact. NEVER plow a high school chick, but be assertive enough that she knows what's on your mind.

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thanks

Consent can be given by merely not saying "no". If you ask her whether you can do something, or if she wants to do something, then you come off as unconfident and you greatly lessen your chance of success. She will tell you to stop as long as you aren't being a completely domineering dick and being very forceful. Ever heard the phrase, "Silence is taken as agreement."?

By forcing her to say she wants to do it with you, she has to admit it to herself, which means that she has to question whether what she is doing is wrong, even if it feels completely right to her. Now that she's questioning it, unless she is CRAZY about you, then there is a good chance she will say "no" to avoid being seen as a slut.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Do you know Mystery's kiss-close technique?

When you think its time ask her

"Do you want me to kiss you?"

Her: "yes" (which is rare) then kiss her

Her: "maybe" or hesitates ... then kiss her

Her: "no" just say "I didn't say you could, it just looked like you had something on your mind.

It just makes you sound so unconfident. A woman wants a man that is sure of himself and knows when she wants to be kissed, she doesn't want to be asked if she's interested, it takes away that first kiss passion, because it is no longer something that she was thinking about and that suddenly happened, now she knows it's coming.

Would you like your parent's to have asked you if you were gonna get whatever wicked toy you wanted for your birthday/xmas and then when you said yes, they gave you the toy unwrapped and if you said no, they didn't give you anything? No, you liked the surprise of it all and maybe you didn't like what you got when you unwrapped the box, but even still, it was a rush. Maybe you kinda liked it and decided to treasure it anyways because your parents got it for you and put all that effort into it, but if they'd asked, you never would have told them that that's what you wanted.

Be The Man. That's what she wants. If what you give her doesn't "fit right" then she'll let you know and you can take it back. Maybe she'll like it more than she thought she would though and she'll continue to enjoy it. Why ask and ruin all the fun?

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye