Has anyone here have experience gaming like those hot punk girls?

I mostly game hot preppy girls etc.

I would assume there are differences between a punkish girl compared to a preppy girl. the girl i wanna game isn't extremely punk and she tries to mix a punk style with a preppy style. shes obviously into different types of thigns then i'm used to but i'm not to sure how to approach this one, any ideas.

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"attraction is universal"

Tell her you like her style. Ask her if she has all the Avril Lavigne CD's too.

Besides that, it's no different than gaming any other chick. Don't neg the music she listens to too much. They can get pretty defensive about that.

Plus her style doesn't really tell much else about her. I spent a lot of time around girls like that, so I ended up assuming things about them. Comes to bite me on my ass the other day.

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This game is automatic. You give it to 'em one time, they come back like addicts.

Its quite ironic actually, that while you want to categorize the behavior and interests of a punk chick, most are quite pround of their individuality and would rather not be labeled.

They could quite possibly have the same beauty if not more than a preppy girl and choose not to conform. Some of them may not have socially exelled in highschool or had a rough upbringing. Many are introverts that have related to rebellious music. Although self esteem may be an issue, they are quite opinionated, and beleive they know exactly what they want, and who they are.

There are many anti-estabishment themes in punk music, whether its anti-governement or anti-society. I cant speak for all punk themes however, becuase I frankly cant stand punk music. I dig the punk chicks though.

There is also a poser fad called "scene" that a seemingly punk chick may actually be a part of. It involves dressing and replicating what is "hot" at the moment and is completely contradictory regarding true punk spirit. They are conformists and probably dont know who they really are. Seems right now what is "hot" is emo. So theres that too.

Thats my input on how to perhaps relate to a punk chick but honestly they are all different. They are all women and while prolly a shitload more genuine and unique compared to a preppy chick. Handle it as you would with any new interesting girl.

I just realized that theres a previous thread on this:

counter-culture-girls-vt20138.html

I'm working on one right now actually.

I find that punk/skate/rock girls tend to be the same as any other girl, although because they have grown up hanging around boys as their friends more than most girls, they are somewhat less girly and need to be shown that it doesn't intimidate you. They have the same need as any girl to have a man that is more alpha than them, so if you can't handle stepping up and showing them that you are, then you aren't gonna succeed.

Good conversation is still required, flipping the main attraction switches is still the same and you don't back down to their challenges, just like any girl, only their challenges will be as different as they are from a preppy girl.

I met the girl I'm working on at a club for our day 2 and when I got her on the dance floor she didn't get close and grind against me like girls usually do, instead she was just rocking out all around me. I teased her that she didn't know what she was doing and she said that she didn't care and that she would turn the dance floor into a mosh pit if she felt like it. So Rage Against the Machine came on and I took advantage of it to start jumping up and down and head banging. We were pushing each other and shoving hard enough that people all around us were giving us funny looks. I had to demonstrate that I had just as much energy as her, I could be just as rough and that when she pushed me on my chest, I had no problem pushing her back in the same place, which just happened to be her breasts.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

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hhahahaha

I can just imagine the scene man.

You're such a brute Ray!

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This game is automatic. You give it to 'em one time, they come back like addicts.

Well, as it turned out, she was just another girl with a bitch shield to keep herself safe from being hurt by guys. I'd wager that that is a primary reason for many punk girls, whether they have been hurt in the past or not, they still have the fear of it, so they keep people at arm's length by acting rough and tough.

I showed her that I was just as tough/tougher than her and then I showed her that I had been hurt in the past too and let her know that although I'm a PUA instructor (yeah, I tell girls what I do), that I'm still a nice guy and not an asshole, so I wasn't like "all the other guys". It may sound AFC to let a girl know that you're vulnerable, or tell her that you'll never hurt her, but if it's the truth and it's what they need to hear, then you need to do it.

Not all girls need this approach and not even all punk girls, but from my experience last night and now looking back at friends and friends' girls, this seems to be a common thing with the tough appearing punk girls.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye