my friend and i are learning the game together, we go out sarging couple times a week. Things he notices

I can open girls very easily
Girl try to qualify themselves almost instantly
I neg them
which induces kino on their part

I can number close, but building comfort on the spot is very hard for me, it seems like i almost have to make myself seem vulnerable so they think that their in control.

Ideas. I've read tell a story that she can relate to, but DHV..

He tells me I do too much push and not enough pull. Which is 100% true.

All my AFC friends tell me im an asshole when talking to girls, and this gets them in friend zone sooo quick, and they wonder why.

I'll be running a set on a group of girls and a friend will come up out of no where and say "is he being an asshole to you girls" of course the in secure ones say yes and the others will agree thus having to DHV myself to where only an HB9.5 or higher would feel inclined to stay around and I say "well it seems to do a good job at weeding out the insecure girls"

ya dude over-negging can be a problem for a lot of guys when they first get started. keep track of how many times you negg a single girl, but the max times you negg a girl depends on how hot she is, if shes a 10 2-3, if shes 8-9 id say two, below an 8, keep it to one if you can. then just DHV, and to build comfort, let them tell a story, and then tell one of your own that relates to it, demonstrating that you can relate to they're situation.

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