Ok so I met this girl at a local club/bar who was a friend of a friend. My friend, her roommate gave me the nod and she liked me. Had a good game that night, didn't even plan on trying to close it out but did. Had some good texting the next day, all good and we had a date planned for sunday night(which was set before we had sex on thursday night). Call her up Saturday and I told her I decided Sunday was too long to wait, she liked that and we watched a movie, and had more sex, slept over that night. We're getting along really well and have a good time regardless of the sex. Now Sunday night we hang out at my friends house and she's staying over, but we promise each other not to have sex no matter how much we want to so that doesn't end up being all we do, it was hard but we made it. Next morning, everything is fine, comfortable, she says things like, I'm happy here and, you feel really good/comfortable, we watch TV for a little in the morning and she leaves around 11 so I can get ready for work.

So good timing, we both get sick later that day. We text back and forth, I say stuff like, I'm excited about the idea of getting to know you and she texts back I'm excited to get to know you too, Im so sweet etc. Talk on the phone a little that night but I have a fever so I go to bed. She initiates contact the next day too, hey how are you feeling? She initiated conversation on AIM. Wednesday she texts me when she gets out of work in the morning same deal, hey are you feeling any better? Then she IMs me while I'm on my laptop at work and is like hey I'm sorry if I seem like I'm bitchy or gonna be ignoring you, but I'm crazy about school and I'm gonna be really busy today. I respond, no that's cool, i'm very busy with school, and I like you so there's no way I'll get upset at the fact youre a busy person. We get offline with she wants me to call her when I get off work.

I don't call right when I get off I call around 7, no answer, no big deal, she always calls back. Nothing. All day next day, nothing. I text her at 4, hey, hope you're feeling better . That's it. No response. No call or text since then. And I haven't even seen her online at all. That was Thursday and today is Sunday. I decided that calling her right now would be a bad thing, but what happened and how do I play this? I have no real problem picking up girls, it's keeping the few like this one that I like that's my problem.

From your descriptions
it looks like You're the one being Gamed Here
and she did a good job too
you're stressing about it

She's probably a PUA
not many female puas out there but they do exist

i know its harsh but what i would do
is game other chicks lol
just be happy you fuk her alredy
remember you only live 10,000 days from now
and there's 12 million hot girls waiting to be fucked
what's it gonna be brotha??

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there's an explanation.

that's all i can really say. don't say or do anything you'll regret.

hmm, I don't think I'm being gamed like that. There may be another dude, girls that look like that don't just have one guy after them. There's all sorts of things that make a girl not call, and I've considered her actually being afraid to call me at this point based on the time delay...so is there a point where I'd call her up again, text, or facebook message?

Imo stop stressing, and if you act like this al the time your going to bore her, jus tignore her, shel come around they never just dissapear thats what we do

I agree with the other guys man. Don't stress about it. I know you like her and want to hang out with her bad, but I've been through the same thing lately. It turns out this girl can't hang with me anymore 'cause she's Indian and her family's culture will ultimately not allow her to be with anyone not 100% Indian (I'm 50% Indian). So that's what she tells me last night. I'm like, "what the fuck!" But in the end there's nothing you can really do, except bite the bullet, look forward to the future and like the rest of the guys say -- only xx, xxx more days left to sarge. So you might as well find an equivalent of this chick out in the field while you let this other chick come around. I know it's not what you wanna hear, but in all honesty, if she isn't calling you back there's some explanation. Who knows what it is. All you can do is look at the facts and continue to sarge other chicks. There are tons more out there like her. Wait a week and if nothing, then maybe call or send a text to see how she is. Other than that, freeze her out. Way more like her waiting for your cock.

this is buyers remorse look it up