OK GUYS, I NEED SOME SERIOUS ADVICE SO THAT I DONT SCREW THIS UP!
I am 34 and have recently started a new job as a doctor. I am probably an 8.
Recently i spotted this HB (8.5 at least) who is a student nurse probable 22-23 years old. So i go upto her and say to her that i was sure i had seen her before and she tells me that it probably wasnt her. I ask her her name and she tells me and we then get back to work.
Next day i bump into her and she asks whether i have managed to work out where i might have seen her. I say i might have been wrong but need her opinion because i wanna get my sister a sweater. She tells me where to go. we have nice eye contact and i get the impression she likes me. I ask her where she lives and what the night life is like there?

Next day, i meet her again (accidentally)- she asks whether i managed to get the sweater and i ask her her opinion whether it is preferable to get a size too small or a size too big. She tells me and she asks if i am going out that night. I say i would like to go but i am on call so it may be diffucult but i may be able to make it after. I ask her if she is going out and she says yes. I say to her that we could meet up if i make it out and she says she could give me her number. I begin to write it when she says that maybe i should give her my number and she will text me after 9.30 pm (when my shift finishes). Anyways - NO TEXT!

3 days again, i meet her and ask her how she is. She is nice and friendly. I say to her that i am looking for aprtments to rent in her village and i ask her which the best places are to live. She tells me a little bit. I say to her that it would be helpful to have her opinion about which the best places are to stay and she asks whether i would like her to come with me to see the apartments. I say yes and she says she would go to the local estate agents and get some addresses to check out. Anyways we plan to go in a couple of days time. As she has no car i offer to give her a lift from work to her village and see the apartments that day. She also gives me her number.

So this is where i am at the mo. I really need to shag this babe and i am petrified that i might screw this up. Any advice on how i should play it from here on?

It seems pretty obvious that she digs you. I would say that she's just waiting for you to make a move. I think it's safe to say you can play it more alpha dog like. Do something more daring and direct. But depending on how you were around her the previous times, it might seem like your acting like a completely different person. One thing is for sure though, don't be a fraid to escalate it up.

but why did she not text me>

She forgot/had plans/something came up/etc.

The world does not revolve around you, but you can make hers revolve around you if you force her too

mmm..

I rarely bother with typing on here these days, its all FR and lay reports for me hehe... But whatever ill give you a hand.

First of all dude, after this advice im going to need a free subscription of aspirin for the headache caused by reading your plea for help lol ~

k, your not pulling the trigger. But i think the real problem is that your coming off as way to needy! you keep asking her for 'her opinion'. Yeh you do it once to open, as a offhanded canned opener, but if you keep doing it lol.. she will start to think, 'is this guy social at all?'. I have no clue as to what type of sexual energy your putting out with your body language, my best guess is that your fairly nervous and jittery in the set.

You need to demonstrate some higher value, you are a doctor right, she is a nurse right? well.. start acting your role buddy! I don’t mean talk rubbish about analytical nonsense with her. I simply mean demonstrate a authority over her world, act alpha. I want you to tell her she looks sexxy!I strongly believe shes confused as to your intent, and your going off into a area where you probably don’t want to end up. You need SOI sadly.

And when she knows your intent, DHV again and then go into creating a emotional connection.

The incident with the number where she didn't text you. Basically you seemed way to keen. And she kinda jumped back. Thats called a IOD. You need to create more of a fun frame with her. Drop your objective and work on making attraction dude. Its more important than her and your shag issues. if you make her feel attraction that won't even be a issue.

Oh and another thing, you dont NEED anything, youd like something. Make sure you come from that angle always.

Kind regards,
best wishes

- Impact

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