I've been taking a break at PUA stuff since college has gotten hectic with my engineering course load the last thing I can focus on is girls unfortunatly but on the flip side it's gotten me preoccupied so I really just don't care about girls at the moment, however a situation just fell in my lap within the last 3 days, sorry it's long but any advice on this one would be awesome!


So there is this girl in my college physics class who I liked at the beginning of the semester 2 months ago and she was giving IOI's at the time when she asked me if I knew how to do a pop quiz (large class). Come to figure that she had a bf so I moved on and we didn't talk since I usually sit with my friends in that class. 3 days ago she came and sat next to me in class (got up from her original seat and moved to me) to ask me some HW questions which I helped her with and she was givng me major IOI's such as sustained eye contact while smiling, leaning in towards me alot and laughing and she asked if she could facebook me and I gave her my info.

I was playing it cool and confident while being myself since I am not "actively" looking for a relationship but I do kinda like this girl. I made sure I was in a relaxed sitting posture and was slow with my speech and calm and just really laid back which worked really well. She later IM'ed me at first to do some HW problems then we started talking for hours and I feel we have a lot in common, especially after she admitted she's kinda shy which I am too naturally.

We spent the last 2 nights talking but just like 10 minutes ago she was like "well i'm going to hang out with my bf!" I use to see him with her awhile back in class (weeks ago) but while i was talking to her I didn't so I was assuming they weren't speaking or they broke up but why would she lead me on like this? I wasn't responding to her IOI's that much either to fall into that trap, I often just teased her like my little sister after starting to talk to her and the cockyness seemed to really be working.

We're still talking but it took me by surprise since I was starting to assume something happened to the bf since she was acting like it by actively qualifying me as bf material saying things like

"we have so much in common" "you seem really confident" "way back in september I hope you didn't think I blew you off"

she was saying those things sporadically as we talked, and I was starting to talk to her like I could potentially make a free move, any tips to sweep this girl off her feet or be a bf killer, or should I just move on a 2nd time. This happened to me like 3 other times in the past year where different girls will give IOI's and lead me on to where i'm assuming she's single and interested and things go well until she busts the BF line and only to find out she really does have a bf. It's really confusing. It's not like I stated talking to her first, except for 1 or 2 times online to respond to her IM's she's always initiated convo so it's not like I put myself in the LJBF zone.

Am I doing anything wrong. I've just been myself minding my own buisiness but being social too when I have time and these things fall into my lap ever so often, although interesting its frustrating that I can't get a relationship off the ground because of this gay fake IOI stuff. Any tips guys?

bro - looks too me like shes sees you as nothing more than a nerd she can play with to get her HW done... and i wouldnt be surprised if she passes on the answers to her bf...
take it up a notch and tell her you gotta start charging for answers...
I.E. each answer is a one second hug in class... or a each answer is a smooch on the cheek when you see each other in class...
keep the upper hand... even if you arnt in the same lvl she is (i.e. shes a 9 and youre a 5) you can bring her down to your lvl in a CF way.
I hate with a passion when a girl thinks her pussy is the best in the world and uses her looks and sexuality to try and get what she wants out of unsuspecting victims...

-Lex

if i see a hb being a bitch... ill run her... #close, k-close, f-close, etc... then thank her for being part of my experiment... (imagine how low her self-esteem drops at that moment - ROFLMAO)

i agree with the first part of lex's reply, but not so much on the method. great idea, but i'd mod it a little bit.

instead of the hugs and kisses for the charge, (because i'd see those as being awkward and unproductive)

charge her a night with you. which will give you a chance to run your game in person, which i've found is alot more effective. you seem like you got pretty good game, judging by her responses, so just isolate her in a setting of your choice. (homefield advantage) and run a routine to get the kiss. i'd recommend the 5-lie routine, by style i believe. if you don't know it, look it up on here.

good luck man, lemme know how it works out for ya

Agree with the shit above, she was gaming you my friend!

This is why I'd game her back as hard as I can. show her she cant fuck with you with her looks. Give her less answers and see whether she still comes on to you.

While doing that, game her. Shift answering to gaming. the idea just mentioned with the carging for answers seems like a good one to me, but try not to go with that for too long. she'll get used to you as an answer-source and it will be her easiest access to communicating with you. That keeps you in that frame and i feel like it will end in a pretty hard DLV.

Good luck bro!

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It sounds to me like she's shit testing you.

Honestly BF's mean fuck all, 90% of guys who don't do pick up can't satisfy their girlfriend.

Ramp the stakes up; get kino going, neg her about always wanting to do homework with you ( Making her seem like the geek HAHA!). You could even call her on trying to abuse the relationship for homework answers. That'll shock her straight! Keep hitting her with shotgun and sniper negs + C+F routines. She may very well be playing you for homework.. ..but that doesn't mean you should cut out.. ..just flip the tables right round back at her.


Good luck!

Sparks