As my topic said for the first time in my life I might be about to break my own rules..recently I started working at this new place, its a resturant,..but what was expecting me there I was never prepared for..Shit what can I say she has it all, I seriously mean she has it all, she's smart, cute, funny, easy to talk to, I am a talkative guy anyway..so that shit does'nt come hard for me..but I have had a simple rule in life never get involved with someone you work with in case shit go to hell, but this time I do want to get involved..but I am clueless on how to procced I am really starting to like this girl, and I just dont know how to make her mine.

Well today we talked again, so i thought id use a cheesy old trick of mine which is say you recongnize her from somewhere but just cant remember from where..so I did this just to get convo going and it worked she started talking then a few mins later she said well I recongnize you aswell (IOI??) so got to talking and it was going fine we were holding a great convo but as always I fuck the shit up by going cool, thats what I do when I want a chick to drop her panties, but in this chicks case I want more then to get inside her pants..so Guys I would aprciate tips on how to procced in this without fucking it up, do i give alot of compliments, and in that case what, I dont want to be to forward but still want to show her that i am intressted,?

B

take it from me whos worked in a place with pretty much nothing but girls for 3 years. What you want to do is nothing direct. Why? Because you will always see her (unless one of you two are quitting sometimes soon). Neg her, lower her value, raise yours by making yourself seem busy, hard to get and that when yuo do talk to her, it's like your doing her a favor. She'll think of you as a imporant guy and SHE will go after you. No need to be distracted at work cuz of her, turn the tables around. This way, you might just get into like random play with her without having something serious at work, which makes everyone happy.

Use cocky funny with her. One of my favorite things to do, which is easy with someone you see a lot. Act like she wants you. In a funny way. So if she says "I'm tired" be like "I will not sleep with you, i'm not that easy" or something like that. If she is wearing something a little 'different' call her on it. If it is kinda childish or colorful or whatever say "what are we in kindergarten?" Basically just tease her. And at any available opportunity be cocky "Hey, I'm awesome" in a funny way "You want me"

Using some of the thing above like "I will not sleep with you" you will get hit on the arm hopefully, or a cute "shut up" all of which will be playful and flirty. In which case you could say "you want me" or "aren't we forward (optional: next you'll probably ask me for my phone number)"

Another tip: Use this stuff on all the girls you work with. It will make work way more interesting, the girls will love you, and if the girls love you, the girl you like will be more attracted to you.

Eventually you will have to take it to the next level. But first do this stuff and read up on what to do next, or just ask once you get to a good point with what i gave you so far.

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Ive had this taught about not pairbonding or so with chicks in my class, ut ive realised you dont have to worry as long as ure being honest

I would go for accedental kino (like rubbing against her or so)
I'm not an exert so il leave it at this point.

Awesome tips guys haha funny tho exactly what ive been doing so far..but the problem is she says I am beeing mean..in a playfull way. But I will absolutly add more negs and the cocky funny stuff HutchN talked about.

Thanks guys.

B

There you go man, you have many options up there, here is another suggestion.

How about you DHV,

There is many ways to do this:

1. By flirting with the costumers:
Girls love guys who can "flirt", of course the good flirting, if you're not sure completely of a right flirting, check DD's "How to flirt and why".
This will show her that you're fun to be around, and of course are not intimated by female company, and also, makes her wonder, when are you going to start flirting with her.

2. By leading the group (Co-workers)
You know women love leaders, or even they love men, who they envy
As Mystery said "Make the women envy you, and you can make them sleep with you"
Or Style "Own the men, and you own the women"
If you prove yourself fun in the group, to the point where everyone salutes you, and invites you over to constantly, and is constantly havign a good laugh with you, thing will start changing for you. She will start looking at u in a different way.

Once you DHV, then invite her over to some place, after work or before, it will be easy once she knows you got her co-workers' approval. Remember part of her brain is thinking "But what will the co-workers say?", this is crucial. Don't miss this one out.

When you're over a place with her, create an emotional connection, there is thousands of lines and routines out there, use them. Then create a physical connection, (obviously KINO should've done previously many times), two of my favorite ways to make a physical escalation are DD's Kiss Test and Vin DiCarlo's Escalation Lader.

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