I've kinda got this girl..
She's was together with a friend of mine a few years ago and while we have been in the same circle of friends for quite a while we never really talked to eachother since she had a boyfriend and all.. She went to Paris for a year (I'm from Sweden) to work and came back a couple of weeks ago..
So I meet her at this party, she's pretty drunk with her boyfriend at the time standing behind her but i notice her looking at me like she wants to fuck me right there on the spot so I ignore him and walk over to talk to her..
Our conversation is pretty lame but just talking to her with her boyfriend right there kinda makes me feel like a player especially since he's a handsome looking dude and clearly hates me talking to her..

A week passes and we end up at the same party again (she now single) and I just try to be funny in the crowd.. Making fun remarks and whatnot but ultimately im too shy to make a move.

Next week, next party I'm sure im gonna go for it and my friend even tells me that she's been talking about me so we sit toghether, talk about bullshit things I dont neg her or anything I just let her do most of the talking while trying to collect courage for making the move.
Later we dance and in the middle of dancing I just grab both her arms and kiss her in a very confident yet romatic way and its a complete success.. So we go to my place and have sex and its all good (I always get them into bed on the first date hehe)..

Now for the problem.. Ive been seeing her for three weeks now and I'm going nuts trying to read all the little messages.. She always waits like a day to answer my messages wich leads me to do the same to keep some fucked up kind of terrorbalance and when I see her I think so much about how she feels about being with me I can't be funny, interesting or anything really.
For some reason I pretend not to care too much about her so she won't think she can hurt me and I suspect she's doing the same thing.

So how do I know what she wants? I'm not about to tell her how I feel, its just not gonna be worth it and ive been burned that way before..
Are there any techniques to stay cool and relaxed? If i continue this way she's sure to get tired of my boring ass..

Also ive noticed this only happens when im with girls I really like, girls i want as my girlfriend. If im just after sex I have no problem being cool and funny.

Maybe this is the wrong forum for this kind of stuff I don't know but if it is i have alot of other questions that are more relevant to pickup arts..

Thanks /Corso

Cool your feelings down, sounds like ure falling into one-itis.

A: There is plenty of fish in the sea
B: As it was said in "A BOOK" i think, there is always another girl behind
this one, who wants you

Just let time pass, if you want her, give her space so he wont feel anxiety..
dont squeeze too tight






btw were country neighboors


ps. try not to think too much

- Mr. White

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You cant win, if you wont try.

You were right Mr.White.. I was falling into one-itis..
So I decided to end it byt screwing some random chick..
My victim was a B7 id say.. Could be an 8 if she lost some weight I was drunk out of my mind but she was so freaky i had no problem getting it up anyway..

Should I use this against to make the other girl more interested in me? I feel like i can get any girl right now, my confidence is over the top and the chicks can tell..
The day after this HB9 "accidently" swung her hand at my penis on the dancefloor for like 5 minutes making me notably hard..;P But my confidence at that point worked against me cause i didn't pursue it thinking she would come to me, hehe.. damn she had some nice tits..

Anyway, this first chick also an HB9 (and my standards are pretty high) had me staring at my phone for a while it was getting ugly. Should i totally forget and ignore her or should I pursue it in another way? I'm pretty sure she will find out i screwed that other girl and im curious how she will react, since we were never officially together.'
If i should pursue it whats the best approach? thanks in advance

Three "pursue" in the same text.. damn.. thats four..;P

Oh and btw so you don't think I'm a cheating asshole, she really was negging me too hard.. Making up excuses not to see me and stuff.. So I don't feel bad about it at all

Im not ot good at this, but ivegot something to say. First of all I belive she was catsringing you, and second do as the pros - be open and tell her about the hb7 "accident or w/e" and the reason. Second is when ure near sthlm CALL ME! GL and remember to have fun and dont worry (have a friend with extreme skills that told me most of what ive written here )

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Yo..
You really think I should just tell her?
How would I go about that? I wouldn't know where to begin..:S

Since I lost my phone that night I scored the B7 I can't even contact her.. Might be weeks until I see her again hehe..

Its seems like u2 have slided away from eachother, say that you couldn't cope with her "strange" behavior taking a whole day to answer a sms and so on, sad and with this in mind, thinking she didn't really love you you slipped.

Or just move on, tbh im not the best one to give ansers on this1.

GL and tell me what you did and the result!

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I'm just gonna forget about her I mostly went with her cause my friends think she's so damn hot anyway..
I've also done some study on her and apparently she's an habitual heartbreaker so I'm not gonna give that bitch a chance to break mine hehe..

Thanks for the advice though I'm sure I'll get one-itis again, soon enough.