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[Background: Free dating site, blond HB8, younger (19), subject line says "Seeking thrill seeker" but lists a bunch of really normal activities, so that way my neg target]
Me:
Subject: thrill seeker, eh? Sent Date: 5/16/2008 11:14:40 AM
You're a thrill seeker, so you do consider running and hiking to be "thrilling"? See, some people might consider like jumping off a huge building to be a thrill, or at least riding the rollercoaster. Traveling, Singing, Running, Hiking, Dancing -- seems pretty pedestrian to me!
Her:
Subject: RE:thrill seeker, eh? Sent Date: 5/16/2008 4:31:37 PM
wow you're quite the piece of work, eh? just cause i list those activities doesn't mean they're the only things i do.
Me:
Subject: RE:RE:thrill seeker, eh? Sent Date: 5/16/2008 5:02:40 PM
Thanks! I agree I am a piece of work!
I understand now. So you're probably the fairly reserved type, right? You like meeting people and trying to be social, but you're going to keep somethings to yourself, obviously.
So, Ms. Casually Reserved, what kind of adventure would you actually get into?
I'm off to go train at the gym now, so you can let that ruminate (means think carefully
) in your pretty little head for a while, k?
See ya.
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This is really my first attempt at seriously negging a stranger online, so comments welcome.
way too personal and kinda mean, i love negging online and i think i do it well, but you want to leave at least a little chance that you might be joking or dont mean it to be negative
the trick, ive found, is making her wonder about what your intent is, to be a dick or to stimulate a rederick, or just curiousity. let her response dicktate which one it is, especially if she assumes something because you can (playfully) rip on her for assuming and go another way, but make it funny. this is coming off as mean to me. heres a partial example of a myspace i have going back and forth with a hb10+
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ..Just another Mike..
Date: May 11, 2008 8:19 PM
What, other than looks, have you got going for you?
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: HB10+
Date: 12 May 2008, 16:07
I have a lot going for me I own my own house drive a 56,000 dollar car I model for compaines around the world so need I say anything more????
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ..Just another Mike..
Date: May 13, 2008 5:51 AM
I was asking what besides your looks. I could see from your myspace page that you were a model.
Do you always describe what you have going for you by your possessions?
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: HB10+
Date: 14 May 2008, 21:59
no I don't all I really have going 4 me is my job right now I'm not married don't have any kids sooooooooooooooooooo
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ..Just another Mike..
Date: May 16, 2008 1:23 AM
i think a lot of people would say they are trying to get something going, like a business, or saving money to go back to school, or write a book, but you mention marriage and kids, is that your ultimate goal?
now her answer here doesnt really matter, its long and she starts qualifying without me having to tell her, but that isnt my point, my negs are def negs but playful, i throw a winky smiley in there, negs work if they are good, she could have went totally negative on me, but she came back with a smart ass remark about how much money she makes, etc, and i neg her about that, but light and if she gets upset i can fiegn playfulness and rip on her for caring so much what strangers think, or whatever, depending. i find this shit works like gold, you just have to be careful how you come accross, the idea is to be a mystery, make her wonder, give her a laugh and make her think she should be mad, you want emotion, but not too much bad emotion.
CHAT
Now that I found you...what if I decided to blink and lose you in the crowd. How would you stand out in that crowd"