I am not sure how I got into this state, but I simply did not care of others opinion and was totally at ease and unapologetic. Decided to get a haircut that day and entered the salon, calm as a placid lake. I entered causally and slowly glanced around the salon. The receptionist greeted me I greeted her; I asked her if this is a walk in or appointment needed for a haircut. She said you can get a haircut right now. I calmly asserted I would like an appointment in one hour. During the short interaction I was not shy with my eye contact and was gazing into her eyes. She gazed back for a split second and a sexual charge went right down to my pants. I did not look away, just enjoyed what I was looking at. She actually looked away and started to write down my appointment with a smirk\blush on her face. I enjoyed that short interaction; want all my interaction to be like this. Just want to figure out how I got into that frame of mind? Being calm, confident and sexually charged all at the same time, felt fantastic.

Also did some flirting / talking with the hair dresser. A cute small blond girl which I found very attractive. I was in flirty mood, and nothing was going to faze me, felt so in control. I mentioned a food and wine show which is taking place on the same day. She asked me if I am going? Is that girl’s code for insinuating that she wants to be asked to go? I did not ask her, why? Had a craving for making out with her then and there, felt confident enough to sleep with her that day. Off course it would have to be a mutual agreement. I can see that with a little talking skill, it be easy to persuade a girl into bed. Obviously I will give her what women want and she will give me what I want.

Sounds like you were really in the zone there. I too want all my experiences to be like that, regardless of who you interact with. I want people to look at each other and think "Woah, who was that!?" when I leave a scene.

Use that experience, and try to tap into that feeling next time you're out on a sarge, and see if you can bring yourself into the same set of mind.

power of now by eckhart tolle

The thing is that I did not even try, and it was just working. I was having fun and so were the girls I interacted with.

Another funny thing I noticed is that I said something about the stylist hair, something about its length. We were comparing hair or something, and I was like, see right now I am looking at your hair and.. yade yada. Her eyes light up, and she actually finished the sentence I think. It was hilarious.

Yeah I think allot of it was being in the now, it was the weekend, I was totally relaxed, and was not looking for anything. But girls seemed to respond positively to me that day. Even the cashier was smiling to me that day. Dunno, but something about being totally relaxed and totally comfortable with yourself.