whenever a girl tels me she has a boyfriend i say "two is better than one" and she laughs

always change the subject right away but use the next few lines to do alittle subconscious re-con to make sure u aint going to be heading out the window to escape a charge for defending your self from any angry chump w/ your droors in hand.

This is weak logic. You know, I once met a guy who used the same reasoning for selling drugs to an 8th grader who lived on his street. Yeah, someone might eventually do it. Doesn't mean it has to be you.

Good boyfriend destroyers are designed to convince a girl her boyfriend isn't worth staying with. You're essentially confusing the girl using mental persuasion. Justify it all you want, a person can potentially cause a girl to do something she'll regret later on.

Leave her better than you found her.

"I have a boyfriend." - her

Look at her with a serious face and say it quickly.

"I have two kids." - You

"I have a boyfriend." - Her
"I'm pregnant." - You

Try to make her laugh by one upping her. Make it into a joke.

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Perhaps:

Her: I have a boyfriend
You: Thats ok, we don't need him for what we're going to do
Her: What makes you think we're going to do anything?
You: Get your head out of the gutter. Pervert
Her: (whatever)

Or


Her: I have a boyfriend
You: Thats ok, we don't need him for what we're going to do
Her: What makes you think we're going to do anything?
You: Get your head out of the gutter, and stop thinking about me naked!
Her: Thats a scary thought
You: (Look down at crotch region for a brief moment and smile briefly) Yeah, it scares a lot of women. You don't wanna know, Sometimes it even scares me. (smile)

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First ask how long shes been in a relationship. Above 6 months i say "well it was nice meeting you" and eject.

If its below 6 months then i say "oh really. so whats it like being in the perfect relationship?"

thats when they start pointing out all the things in their relationship thats wrong. then they realize that its not perfect anymore and have second thoughts.

You then say "alright well im going to give you all the power. heres my phone number and its up to you whether you call me"

Works for me

I posted this elsewhere, just hoping someone replies and can offer some insight.
I hit up a bartender by telling her I thought she was beautiful. The next time around she tells me I have the most beautiful eyes. The rest of the night we playfully flirted with each other and hung out during her break. I asked for her number when she broke in with I have a boyfriend. Typically, i walk away but as I said that's cool, she interrupted me. "...but it isn't working out. I don't think I'll be him longer." So I got her number....

Since then we've had some good interactions but I cannot seal a date with her. She's asked me for lunch twice and canceled on me both times. I didn't make a big deal of it and told her it wasn't a big deal. The last time I saw her at the bar we hung out in her car after she closed the bar up. It was great, I gave her a hand massage, she shared a bunch of personal stuff about herself. She went on and on about why she likes me...so WTF?!?!?!?! A clear kissing opportunity never really presented itself (feels like she stops herself), but she pecked me on the lips and said good night.

What should I do? And what am I doing wrong. Is she feeling guilty? What do I need to do to get her go out with me and dump her boy. It gets worse, she lives with the bf, she's supposedly looking to move. I don't think I can wait till her situaition is resolved, so how can I do it that she breaks up with him anyway?

ps Yeah I like her, I don't just want to bang her.

The best bf destroyer I've used is this...whenever she mentions her bf, just say "Cool...so what's it like being in the perfect relationship?".

Usually she'll answer with something like "Oh, it's not perfect!", and you can ask her why it's not perfect, etc. Basically, you are planting seeds of doubt in her mind about her relationship with her bf.

Make sure you let HER talk negatively about her bf. You do not talk negatively about her bf, otherwise she will start defending her bf and you will blow it. Let her do the the bf destroying....

My opinion is If her boyfriend or borefriend as I like to call him cant put it down right and please her I will!!! My favorite is

She mentions her BF and starts qualifying him somehow ("Oh, he's so X. I love him so much"). You use this when you start a FUTURE ADVENTURES PROJECTION:

"So I suppose that since I like him and I don't want to hurt his feelings and everything, we will have to conduct our moonlit tryst secretly. He must never know of our clandestine meetings."

Then you build up her BF with:

"You know what? It sounds like you guys are totally in love. I can totally tell that he's the PERFECT guy for you and you will ALWAYS be together. In fact, I bet he'll propose to you soon and you'll get married and have kids and live in a nice house with a white picket fence. And you know, I just couldn't live with myself if I ruined the rest of your life with him because he is your PERFECT BOYFRIEND."

Then she starts bashing her own boyfriend ("Well, sometimes he's mean to me. Blah blah blah") and you say,

"Well, if I was your boyfriend, I wouldn't be like that at all. I would call you three times a day JUST to find out where you were and what you were doing and who you were with. I would get mad if you didn't call me EVERY day because I would love you SOOOOO much. I would go out drinking with the guys every weekend so you could have your personal space to do whatever it is that girls do... I don't know, cooking and cleaning and such. Oh, and I would forget all our anniversaries and break up with you on valentines day."

So, the idea is:

She mentions the BF,

You ignore it.

She mentions him again,

You start three threads going:

One is future adventures projections of you and her having sex. But you use imagery that she can fantasize about (If you don't know, go read a romance novel) and disqualify yourself. ("Yeah, but that will never happen.") This raises buying temp.

The second is a thread that describes him as the ideal boyfriend so his faults are amplified. This is a DHV.

The third is a thread that describes you as a horrible boyfriend. You can do it ironically if you want. Basically, it's a DLV and a false-disqualifier.


In fact, these anti-BF techniques work so well that I use them all the time on girls that are single too. I just start talking about past relationships or the ideal guy, etc, etc. Or I start future adventures projections about our illicit meetings, running away from the paparazzi in LA, getting pictures of us kissing in the National Enquirer, etc, etc.

Convinced a target hu has a very protective bfd to come out wit me altho she is bringin her friend to use as a safety barrier im guessin.My usual wingmen r workin so im goin solo with no1 to distract the friend. Wots the best way to get the girl by the end of the day

I was considerin gaming the friend all day to get on her gd side altho im reluctant in cse the target thinks id rather have er friend insted and backs off bcos he is suposedly "off limits" bcos of er bfd

How should I approach the situation??
Also in reference in earlier posts I think its fair game if the girl clearly gives you a chance to impress her into choosing you over her bfd

Please read and help as due to go out wit her Wed
Cheers lads

HB: I have a boyfriend
PUA: Whoa that is quite an accomplishment especially for a girl like you.

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"The third is a thread that describes you as a horrible boyfriend. You can do it ironically if you want. Basically, it's a DLV and a false-disqualifier."

The other stuff about these bf destroyer totally make sense to me and I will use them. But about this one I'm not quite sure. In what relation can a DLV help you? IMO this has to be ironical so you come across as rather vulnerable than DLVing, because you otherwise identify too much with bad behaviour the bf has rather than false - disqualifying.
Thoughts or explenations?

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