I would say hang out with her along with other common friends and ignore her completely. If u have a buddy in the common group try to use him as someone who always includers her in activities while u all are out by specially pointing out (occassionaly) in the group, hey X try this what ramone(ur real name) and friends(a few names from ur gang) are doing.

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EMOTIONS EMOTIONS!!!! they have them up the vagina!!! you must respond to emotions the right way.. push pull the fuck outta here and give her emotional excitment. and if she doesnt respond, shesa dud. then you need to go pork a couple fatties then hit an HB8 to get her outta your nutsack.

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your being played man turn it around on her:

You gotta ask yourself have u done the emotional needs checklist:

Affection
Sexual Fulfillment
Conversation
Recreational Companionship
Honesty and Openness
Physical Attractiveness
Financial Support
Domestic Support
Family Commitment
Admiration

See which ones you have left out with her, the next time u see her make a routine if u forget any of these go to the toilet and check each one off the list, neg her a bit play around with her but be flirty give lots and lots and lots of kino, its essential

Let her know that you wanna be more then just friends.If this doesnt work shes probably a lezzer!!

Hope this helps Dude!! And good luck.

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Don't Hate The Player, Hate the Game...

I was hanging out with a girl who didn't give me an opening one time, I eventually said fuck it and tried Mystery's kiss question. She said no. I said lets hang out again she said yes. Next time we hung out I F-closed.

Some girls don't fit the standard mold of game theory. This girl obviously has some interest in you since she cooked you dinner. Unless your firmly in the friend zone you've got yourself a real good shot. Fuck the opening, make one yourself. Not always a good idea but in this case I'd give it a shot, sometime you gotta throw up a hail mary. Worst case scenario you get rejected, you've got lots of other girls so no big deal!

I only really like girls that arent interested in me. Shes showing you she has more value than you so your attraction switches are flipped. Your screwed dude. Ive been in the same boat, just deal with it.

Firstly I don't see anything wrong with having one-itis...

Yes you got to cut her out...

I saw this girl for ages and we got on real well, then I broke up with her later coz it wasn't fun anymore... I said we should just be friends...

then I started getting into game theory and realized how well i had done...

So now every now and again when we talk she will say something about how she still thinks about me all the time or something.. if you are not around she will miss you is the idea... if she doesn't miss you then... well you clearly didn't make the right impression

Just cut her out dude...

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Dude Smoke is on point I did the same damn thing I had 5 long term girls all hot other girls on the drop of a dime, then i was opening a set in the club i missed my target but got a friends # at first she was all about me then she flipped the switch ( watch out bro's theese are game busters... the anti player) fucked my game up I dropped my stable for this bitch who wasn't even hotter than my other girls I didn't even want a realationship at first, then I became obsseded she told me her twin liked me i was like so... I lost my coolness just be her friend bro if you want her and your gettin vagine like u said she'll come around it's all about rejection she rejected u so u want her. ( after I realizeed I was being a man bitch I stayed the night at her sisters no f close but we had fun ) and now she aint even that hot so game on!

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Bingo. You've lost. Move on.

Ive had the same problem as well, this girl I've been seeing did the same thing to me so, I felt I had enough and I sent her a text saying I'm through. She still flashes in my mind though, as one that got away, but I guess, as a guy getting into the pick up arts, it's just the education that we get as we journey on meeting many women.

I'm kind of in the same boat my friend. I agree with what was said earlier. If you want this girl the only thing that seems reasonable is to cut off all contact with her. A lot of times they will come sniffing back to see what you're doing.

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I Totally Agree! Been there and done this! as painful as it can be you have to give her the gift ..of missing you....if it don't come back you gotta move on!!!

ok ok but when do you start aknoledging her?? i am doing this right now and yes i get her attention quikly, but how much time should i not aknoledge like i mention before a week a month a semester (6 months) and what do you do/act when you awknoledge her.

I got over one-itis with the gift of moving. But I had to move which made it even easier.
anyways keep the mind frame of "she is gone, she is no longer MINE. In fact... she never was MINE. I was never HERS"
and "I'm here, alone... and I know shes not sitting THERE...alone. I gotta go and find me a HB.."
because chances are, (or atleast you need to keep this thought;) She is already out with another man, having a great time... so why not YOU. Your able to as well. If you continue being that guy who is a hopeless romantic, you'll never get over her and will eventually become AA. Which is definitely NOT good. In fact, in back tracks your game.

pretty much the same inexplicable phenom that happens in women

you guys all had good advices, im in the same boat, well kinda. I met this girl through a friend who is one and off again with her bf. whats the best way to move in? i know where she works (buckle) but thats about it. i've only seen her like 3 times and i dont even have her number. She recognized me last week when i went shopping, but i totally was being an afc.