kiss closed and number closed this chick friday night (3/28). I have a horrible short term memory and i always forget names. I gotta call her by monday, in fact, shouldve called her sunday! Any tips on how to get her name or how to ask without making me feel like a tard?

It happens.
Ok here's an idea, call her and speak as you would on the phone, arrange a date, when you're sat talking with her say 'wow i feel like i know you so well already, actually i've forgot your name, whats your name again, no im serious (she tells you) i was only joking, are you always this gulabul.'
Or you could simply just call her up and say 'who's this?'
Either way you'll find out her name in the end.
But the first one will be more fun.
Yeah go with the first one, and let us know what happens.

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You could ask for her email and hope it has her name in it, or ask if she's on facebook and ask how she spells her name?

If she spells her first name and it's something obvious then be sarcastic and say 'I meant your surname, I'm not an idiot, I can spell Gemma' or whatever in a C&F way...

Atleast here in Finland we have telephone centres that have a pretty good db on phonenumbers / owners, meaning unless she has a hidden number, maybe you can use her phone number to find out her name?

And for the future, I have a terrible name-memory myself, so what I do is I use my mobile as a memopad, it actually has a memopad application so when I meet a new girl, I always type in the date, the place, her name, and something that will help me remember who she was (for example: 28/3, Clubname, Laura, tall blonde, doesn't like rap music)

The longer I talk with a girl, the more I try to type in, so that if I meet up with her later, I can seem like the guy who actually cared, as I remember details that most (including myself) wouldn't.

The bonus when using your mobile is that you can be very open about writing things down, the girl will just think that you are texting, or you can just say "sorry, I'll just need to reply to my friend quickly"

Oh yes, and mozyFresh, really like that first option of yours, great way to make fun of her (and find out her name as a bonus)

When you meet up get on the subject of your driver lisence picture and tell her how horrible it is. Tell her that it is probably worse than hers, and compare them. Meanwhile get her name from her lisence. She will probably resist a bit to show you, but she will eventually give in.

these are all good tips, and thank you for them, but i decided not to call her. I # closed a hotter chick recently so im pursuing her instead. i will use these tips in the future though! thanks

I once had that problem of forgetting the name, what I do now is always when I put the number down, ask her to spell her name. I also have a touch sensitive phone so I can dhv a bit by writing it in, and then getting her to try it, then neg her cos she doesnt know how to do it.

If you have the number and forgot her name, you could also try calling her at some weird time like 2 am, where it will go through to her voicemail, sometimes those voicemails will say their name on it.

lol i once did that because i really liked the girl but i met her whilst drunk (before i discovered the game) and i had forgotten her name, however she picked up and it turns out that i had woken her up. That took a lot of getting out of...
You guys have a lot of good opinions on this, do you guys have to do this a lot?

what i do:

pua: "whats your name?"
hb: "____"
pua: "no silly! i know that, i meant your last name"

thats gold

I know this is old, but someone else brought it up so I am just gonna add something

You should have called her up despite meeting another girl. Abundance...you can date more than 1 girl.

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I'm bad at remembering names so i have this thing/routine i use (NO PHONE GAME). If I meet a girl and I happend to forget her name, I just go passionate on her like this:

ME: Have you ever noticed how impotant our names are. If someone calls
our name we respond immediately like we own it. It has something
mysterieus, its part of our identity. ( just smile and just look at her she will start to talk)

Hb: bla bla

ME: (cut her of !) The world wouldn't be the same if our names were different, it would be choas all over the place. Can you image the sky would be black the trees would be gray. (smil otherwise you will create a bad feeling inside the HB)

HB: haha (funny chicks go doomsday scenario on you make it playfull but don't go to far with it)

ME: You know what I have to tell you something. The first time I saw you I thought you were a kimberley (just a stupid name). I was dissapointed when i found out you wheren't a Kimberley. Be C & F all the way Chicks love their name

HB: whats wrong with ...ME: Cha-Ching
(have something to back it up! I always go like: thats cute your nose wiggles when you are angry, go into a routine )

This won't work every time, i found out some chicks don't give a fuck about their name and want to know why you like kimberley more, just hold the stronger frame and go into another routine. If this won't work for u try nosferatu's line its gold.