I'm 32. What do I do about younger chicks that have a problem with this? I've tried reframing, talking about being experienced, not being a little boy, etc. Any ideas, brothers?

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well im a sister not a brother,
but younger chicks that have a problem with this..i would definately move on.. there is absolutely no way of talking your way out of your age.. i suppose momenterily you could convince them of something, but it will definately not change their views in the long run.
Age can be a massive advantage when getting with younger girls, especially at your age which is not exactly old. There are shitloads of chicks that dig older men for exactly the reasons that you mentioned, (speaking from experience, im in my very early twenties..) you just need to find them, it should be pretty clear when you first meet them whether they dig you or not, you may be going to the wrong places..

All those techniques have to do with manipulating things outside of yourself, but have you tried reframing YOURSELF?

If you have even the slightest feeling of "I don't belong," you WON'T belong. Fortunately, as a man you have a CHOICE in how you feel.

Your external reality is a reflection of your internal reality and vice versa. This means you can affect your outside reality with how you believe in yourself. If you walk around with the belief and feeling that "I'm 32 and that means younger chicks won't like me," then younger chicks won't fucking like you. If you walk around with the belief and feelings that, "I'm 32 and that means I have an advantage over younger men. Younger chicks will prefer ME because I'm 11 years better than her boyfriend," then younger chicks will start seeing you in a different light.

Your own belief system and mindset will determine the energy you give off and all these subtle subconscious cues that show how you truly feel on the inside.

I completely agree with Chief999. Listen to your own language russianbear, "I've tried reframing, talking about being experienced, not being a little boy, etc."

You have no control as a human being on your ageing process but you do have control over how you see yourself and are therefore percieved.

It's just a limiting belief, besides, look at Style, he was older than you when get got into the game.

You say, "What do I do with younger chicks that have a problem with this?"

You should be challenging her to keep up with you, have your own reality that she's enticed to step into. If she perks up about it, just blow it off because you have such a strong reality and are secure within yourself. I'm willing to bet that she doesn't even see it as a "problem".

Those are my thoughts, you can take them or leave them.

Exactly, and he got many 18 and 19 year olds. It's all about you. adamsapple may think it's too much of a problem, but I'm sure if she was attracted to someone enough she wouldn't even care about his age...

How old was style when he got in the game? I always thought he was like 27 or so cause his myspace page says hes 33... what do i know though...

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Not to mention that the way your talking about it is validation seeking and thus a big turn off.

My brother is younger and was having issues dealing with "older" people at the club, this is the line we came up with to help him destroy that problem...

"O, your one of those people who judges maturity based on a number."

While i dont see it working as well in your case, you could try it...they are young and might think your challengeing thier maturity in which case they will validate to you.

Other then that brush it off its not a big deal. Come up with a witty short comment to challenge or dissmiss thier statements about age.

Did you ever try simlpy using your age to disqualify them? ("OMG your so young, i could never date you itd be like dateing a little sister or something.")

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what do you think?

From my experience, anything is only as big of a deal as you make it. If the chick isn't diggin you because of your age, move on. There are approximately 6.6 billion people on this planet, with about half being women, there shouldn't be much of a problem finding sets to open.

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how did u get his myspace page can you email me the link and eh nice avatar where did u get it?

thanks, giftube.com or ebaumsworld.com

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fu ... d=48124294

neil strauss's myspace...

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no yeah, age is absolutely not a problem, but i think that girls that have a problem with some1s age cannot be talked into thinking differently.. then again i might very well be underestimating the power of your sarging! apologies x

My bro is 19 and worked a 29 year old chick who musta brought up his age 3-4 times..each time he used the line we made for him or some variant...either that or brushing it off as if she said something silly or nothing at all...

The next day he actually cracked a joke about her being an old head...was hilarious..turned the tables on her.

Age, looks, money, cars...all these things are things girls use as excuses to limit the guys they have to deal with...we have the tools to cut through the shit and let them experience us for who we are...eventually...when they earn that

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heheh
I like this one. How much for one of these "adamsapple?"
Does she come with a leash or is that sold separately?