Ok so, am Undefined. Am 17, still a virgin with out ever having a real girlfriend (only akward-dont-last-long-relationshops). Since very young, I was cutegirlphobic, I'd freak out everytime I was close to a really cute girl, even now I remeber how I was, I'd start shaking a little, my heart would pound! And I'd studder and try not to look at her in the eye or have a conversation....=(

.. B4 17, not much had change, I cld now to tlk to cute girls, but I'd feel akward and super shy inside, sometimes my eyes would start 2 tear and I'd studder from being nervous..
I'v always hid my feeling, from my friend, familly etc, so I'd never liked to admit I liked a girl, even less tell that girl I like her..

A little after turning 17, I watched The pick up artist, I didn't watch all of it, but one or two episodes were enuff to interest me. I got the book, The Game by neil strauss, I read all of it, all the time eager and interested, I decided to start working on my game, bymaself..
Well, I didn't really worked out, lol. I did overcome most of my phobia by now though, I can talk n be around most cute girls, and, am ALOT more kino than I ever was b4 17, more confident(not enuff to approach a total starnger though) and with more I guess inner game, I care more about my looks in a healthy way. Iv read a lot of material, I cldnt read enuff though cuz I didn't have internet, even now am typing this post in my sidekick, in my 1st period class.

Lets see, am not bad looking I know that, it's more my comfort and confidence, I tried using the "rules" on a daily basis but its pretty hard, its easy to get lost in everyday life and go back to yur original AFC ways..I gotta work on that.

Well umm, Hello to all the AFCs,PUAs and mPUAs here and plz send me some of ur wisdom, I'l appreciate any and all replys..

dude, congrats on tryin 2 improve urself in so many ways, thats ur 1st step to becomin a PUA done

ok now my advice, read magic bullets! (new online ebook) that stuff is great and after i read it, i somehow felt more confident, visualise urself being incredible confident, how u would walk if u owned everyting, stuff like that, it helps visualising things, u can find heaps of self help stuff in the confidence section, also 1 technique i would suggest to do is

every1 u walk by, look them in the eye, smile, and say "hi", and i mean every1! (well mainly girls) after a few times, itll help, trust me, thats the 1st thing i did, and after about the 3rd time a girl smiled and said hi back i felt ontop of the world...

it helps bigtime, but then again, im stilla noob at this, im not bad at pua and have some natural talents, but im sure other ppl on this forum well lend alot more expeinced and wiser advice