i find if a girls been looking at you dependent on how well you know the gym is to either as i do is go 'hey can i make you a deal? hb - erm ok whats the deal? well i need help with ...... excercise and i saw you doing some .... work and i could help you out for definate, we gotta deal? hb - ok, so are you a pt? well i know that telling from my physique you could easily make that mistake but no im just mad on the gym'

this is a good opener because its not hitting on them as such as your asking for help but then showing dhv by saying that you could help them and then being a bit C&F at the end to get them smiling and lead on from there. then next time you see them you can ask them how there doing and say your gonna be checking on their progress and neg them

Picking up girls at the gym is just like picking up waitresses... It takes time to establish some rapport, but once its done it's easy.

1.) More than likely you see the girl everyday and she sees you, so there is physical familiarity there.

2.) Next time you see here simple walk up to her (BIG SMILE) and introduce yourself... say something like, "What's your name"? When she replies, simply tell her you name, and tell her "Its nice meeting you... have a good work out." Do not create any more conversation this time.

3.) Next time you see her in the gym, tell her Goodmorning and use her NAME (Important).. she will be impressed that you remembered her name.. create short conversation and if you are getting IOI continue your pick-up... if not keep it short and sweet and end the conversation and let her work out... she will respect you for this..(remember she probably gets approached constantly in the gym by other guys who are asking for "their female opinion on something..lol)

4.) After enough time of saying hi to her you will have moved from being that annoying chump that walks up with some cheesy ass pick up line to someone who she knows ( better than any other guy in the gym at least) and can let her guard down to talk to you. If a woman in the gym does not know you, or have rapport with you it pretty much doesnt matter what you say for effective pick up, the only thing that is going through her mind is "please let me work out".

This does work... be careful with negs in the gym because they do not work like they do in other environments... women are typically in wake up mode with no makeup on and can be very self-conscious in the gym. Saying the wrong thing can screw everything up quick.

After you have rapport, you can pull out all of the stops for the seduction mode...

Goodluck!

Soul

I think you could have approached this situation in two ways

1. When she was sitting opposite you doing an abs exercise you could have walked up to her and started mining words until she takes her head phones off wondering what your saying, and as she takes them off say something like(with a smile) "so do you think you can help me" she'll say help you with what and you come out with something completely crazy lol like i need you to help push start my car or something funny like that, that will catch her off guard. and then ice broken

2. Or using tonatiuh8's method but instead of saying because i have the same problem with 2/3 women disturbing my work out to chat me up you have a problem with geeza's coming up to you chatting you up, then you can follow on to the do i look gay opener etc.

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LOL if i only had your "misfortune"...6'1 155 lbs

go to a neighboring gym.. this will work if you have a Bally's membership

"I can see you're working those little muscles you got there"

Saying that with sarcasm obviously. Don't say that if you're a stick and you're as small as her though.

But generally, I go to the gym to work out, not really socialize. But hey I can see it happening, and most likely it's the only time you'll see her so make something happen.

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lol "you kinda resemble a pornstar i know

not saying its a bad thing

because i'd fuck both of you"

Well I've used a few openers surrounding what music they're listening to.

Just approach and point at their ipod/mp3 player say something like "Hey listen I'm bored of the same old workout music...what are you listening too? (Granted she's a girl and i highly doubt it's the same kinda of workout music most guys used but i've been surprised too.)

This approach is not extremely aggressive but if she is already sending you non verbal ioi's then at least it's a conversation starter.

I do agree with some of the other guys here too though that used the analogy "don't shit where you eat". Work and gym are two places I'd be weary of sarging, but then again if she really is an HB 9/10 then who cares!

good luck

i tried this once, didnt go down so well for me!

Hey man, I find that a lot of people in the gym are usually in a decent mood as working out releases chemicals in the brain that tend to melt stress away, at least while you are working out. With this in mind, I like to play off of the environment and whatever else is going on while trying to keep it playful.

You mentioned that she was wearing an ipod, which most people would find hard to open. I personally in that situation would have mouthed something to her without saying anything at all, and when she takes her head phones off to ask you what you said reply with, "Oh, I didn't say anything, I just wanted to see if I could get you to take your headphones off."

From that point, just start running game, but instead of asking the questions such as, "How long have you been coming here?" or "What do you think about this gym?" Ask something out of the ordinary. Such as, "What is it about this gym that you like the most?"

I kind of agree with icebreaker, i dont think i would want to chat up girls in the gym because thats where i do all my work for looking good at bars etc..

However if I was going to do it I would mabey go to a boxersise class or something where you have to team up and try.

Me| Hey, you dont seem to have a partner
Her| No want to team up?
Me| Erg i dont want to get my ass kicked?!
Her| (hopefully laughs) Ill take it easy
Me| Well if you want to team up with me that much, as long as your gentle!

Then you could keep this going and (i dont know what kind of gym you use but if theres a cafe in or near) after say you always like to grab a smoothie its good for your metabolism or some crap and go there with her.
CJay

Intresting topic....
I guess it depends if you want to be direct or indirect in approaching at the gym. Since everybody is there for working out it can be a little tricky to start a long conversation.
Just some suggestions...if a girl is using a machine, you might go up to her and ask her what's that machine good for, and if you can test it inbetween.
Let say she does some excersizes for the abs, then ask her if she know some other ones for you to try it out....and next time
Since you are working out in the same place as she... and she is a 9/10..the probability for you to see her again is pretty high (since the hot babes work out a lot). So just say Hi to her everytime you see her and maybe talk to her a little bit. Ask her if she has some cool songs to recommend to put in your own Ipod since you're bored with your stuff. if you see her with her cell phone...go up to her and say "give that to me for a sec" or "let me see that" and then you call your own cell. So now you got her number and you can call her later in the day and just talk to her. The whole thing is Alpha style:)

this is last Friday
I normally wear some crazy fashion item at the the gym like a punk belt or if i can I normally train with some regular shorts, not sport shorts (you can pick up some trendy ones and H & M)
I see this girl that she's got all her rings and jewelery so I say to her : "I like your style, coming to work out with rings and all that.. I do that in my own way.." so we start talking, I tell her what i do, few negs, then we go for dinner and drinks ( I fake drinking .. I don't drink..)
banged her in her place later that night..
Miao

That could work, but how the hell do you know if she's gonna propose to team up? How is she gonna help me benchpressing double her weight

I like the opener that david wygant uses. You walk up to the girl that has the earbuds in her ear. Signal for her to take her headphones off by pretending that you are taking ear plugs out of your own ears. Then say "I have to ask you what kind of music are you listening to because I noticed that you are completely focused on your work-out and my music just is no getting me in the zone." so if she says im listening to Usher ask her what song. then thank her for her recomendation and walk off. then the next time you see her you can say "Hey! Usher girl! and continue your routine from there.

guys i def would approach chicks at the gym. i mean if you see she is in her zone....then just walk by her wink and smile and keep walkin. wait till she is done with what she is doing. i know i would love to be approached at the gym it would make the girl feel good. and i think the gym would be a good place to game on account of everyone is really vulnerable and looking like shit and grunting and its not very pretty haha. so you dont have a lot of those material or what not obstacles

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