Hi guys I'm new to the forum, but have been playing "the game" for a while now, and am fairly well read on the concepts you guys use. And have been fairly successful in the field.

I got into this to get a girlfriend and develop a serious relationship, after I realised that I was a total AFC or wuss and completely clueless after the break down of a relationship with a HB9 a while back. I know now that the relationship broke down due to her not being attracted to me and I also kept falling into the nice-guy traps which didn't help.

Anyway after using my game to pull other women, my ex has been back in contact "as friends" but I can't help wanting to sarge her, I really want her to feel the attraction to me now that I felt to her when I was an AFC. I know this may sound like a case of one-itus - maybe it is, maybe it's revenge for her rejecting me, or maybe it's more, to be honest I don't know!

I'm in contact with her by email at the moment as she's on the other side of the world, so I've been doing the Cocky Funny stuff, push-pull and negs etc. trouble is as it's done by email I'm not sure how well it's working! She's back in town (briefly) in a little over 2 weeks. I need to get her to meet up with me, the trouble is she's worldly-wise and if I suggest it, she'll think I want to get back with her which will make her resistant to the idea. I need to create enough attraction by email that she'll want to meet up and discover the new me, then I can close her when we meet up.

Any ideas how best to do this? I've never tried sarging anyone that knew the AFC me before or an ex

Any ideas

Sarge her like any other girl. When she's in town neg her, be C&F and tell her DHV stories about the things that have happened while she was gone. You can do that over email too, but what will really decide whether or not you get laid is how you act around her when she's in town.
Bring around other girls that dig you, to show her your pre-approved, and try to trigger leader of men switch.
Thats basically what Mystery says in his book anyway. I have an ex or 2 I'd like to tag again, and thats the plan I'm going to use when I get the chance.

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Thanks for that, the material that I use on her by email is the key to getting a meet up, I've got a few ideas how to push a meet if need be, but this is very much a plan B at the moment, and the trouble is I want a plan A, I need to do enough stuff to make her want to meet me rather me forcing the issue and maybe putting her on the defensive.

I've never really done this stuff by email, I find it easier to pick up on IOI's face to face and where I can see a girl's reaction! To be honest I'm finding it difficult to see if she's expressing IOI's or just being friendly with the questions she asks. I imagine the type of IOI's you get from someone you know well are very different from those you'd normally get from someone you're getting to know for the first time!

If she's emailing you when you email her, and telling you she's going to be in your town, then more than likely she wants to see you. The best person for this question though is probably j smooth. I read some of his stuff on online sarging, and its pretty clever.

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Ok thanks will search for that